- Im a introvert female I easily get shy and don’t like talking to people unless they talk to me. I don’t really smile and I naturally have resting bitch face :/ I try to smile so people won’t see me as intimidating. I’m sure some people see me as rude bc of my social anxiety. I’m a single 28 year old female that rent a room in an apartment with 7 other people ( each have their room ) I rarely talk to them but when I do I either say hi or say hi and give a wave and smile. I honestly feel like I look stupid lol I do the wave with out thinking cuz I just get anxiety when I interact with people. My neighbor rarely smile just say hi so that makes me feel like I look stupid or think I’m a weirdo. I know I’m probably over thinking but the last thing I wanna do is act weird when I just trying say hi 😞
- I hate my social anxiety.
I’s it awkward to wave at people?
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It’s ok! You don’t have to overthink stuff like this, waving and giving a slight smile is natural. Also off you’re trying to say hi to someone, be loud and audible.
I used to be the biggest introvert ever a year ago. Honestly, just be natural and be yourself around them. Being friendly makes being social so much easier in the long run. And nobody should think you’re weird or stupid for waving. It’s natural and universal.
Also if u want to be a little more social, my biggest tips are to just be yourself and open. Go up to someone and ask a random question like “do u know what the weather is going to be today?” Or “what time is it?” And be polite with it. Random small things like that can be a good way to ease into conversations.
Also, don’t be afraid to interject into conversation. I feel like that was the biggest thing for me to get over. Just be smart with it tho. Like say “hey guys” and walk up to them. Listen for a bit without saying much, but when u hit sum to say don’t be afraid. This is a really easy and effective way to get better at being social.
The whole last part is optional just thought I’d include it just in case, but generally waving is a really great way to open up a bit and greet people.
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Jut do the smile and nod. Don’t even have to look at them.
Okay :)
But I’d advise gaining confidence in this area. As a shy introvert, I relate. But I powered through toastmasters meetups and networking events where you have to look several people in the eyes and confidently tell them why you’re worth their time.