Why are women often so judgmental about each other’s fashion choices?

[Angelbabylips]

This is just an observation that comes from society. We women can be difficult with judging each other's fashion. Men sometimes could care less. What is it in society that most of us this way?

[Cyfris]

Yeah women can be savage about it. Some of the most uncomfortable I have been is sitting with a couple women as they cut a girl apart about her outfit to themselves. I'm not saying they were wrong about it but damn I am still not sure I have ever felt as strongly about anything in my life as they did that day about that.

[Angelbabylips]

Yes. Some of us do.

[Cyfris]

I've seen knife fights less intimidating. It is a good thing words aren't weapons cause that poor girl wouldn't have known what hit her if she had any idea what was going on at my table.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Miserable bitches

[Zack-Bann]

I think it’s a residual social practice from a bygone era.


Back when women weren’t supposed to work or contribute to society other than be home makers, many social practices were born out of boredom


Basically, gossiping about one another’s fashion sense was a way to pass the time and have a laugh at another woman’s expense


Now women mostly do work an contribute the society same as men but the practice remains and now seems odd
Because men do in fact not care about what other men wear
So it becomes a strange “women only” phenomenon.

[midnightmoon05]

Competitions. To put down others.
see that at my job everyday.
one colleague whom I see once in a while… never talked to her.. she would always small talk me… oh I like you Mr belt. Oh I like your shoes… I find it super annoying and I just say thank yuh and move on. I don’t want to engage with these kind of women.

[thegreenyogi]

Lack of acceptance, insecurities and labeling something different as odd or strange because it's something not every woman would wear.

[thegreenyogi]

Thank you!

[REDBRA36c]

From my perspective, women see other women as enemies in the competition to get men’s attention. They do their best to visually attract men sexually: in my opinion with how practically every aspect of her body is flaunted. Plus, it’s with all of these photoshopped counterfeit fashion catalog magazine images propagandizing what the ideal woman looks like conjured up in the mind of the publications who don’t look anything like the original female model. Women seem to idealize these fictitious images.


Even including what bra size they wear. (In my personal opinion, I don’t care how much your bra size is A cups or greater, but not unhealthfully disproportionately unnaturally greater.) From my perspective and according to statistics: it is noticeably unattractive when 80% of women wear their fake bra size identity bra. As it relates to a female woman’s bra size (yes, I do like bras, have a simply alphanumeric-based favorite bra size, sister sizes, cup and band size), I don’t care what your bra size is. In accordance for one with this question you’ve asked, how women present their breasts have been sexually weaponized by women against women. Yes, there are men who are attracted to certain cup-sized women (maybe regardless of band size), but just as women have weaponized the sexuality of every aspect of a woman’s body against each other, there are a whole array of men attracted to the whole array of aspects of a woman’s body. However the only aspect of a woman’s various clothing sizes that has been more sexualized by women is their bra size. They have sexualized their natural or fake bra size identity into being such a personal secret they accuse the good men who would ask as being juvenile, creeps, and/or perverts.


And in conjunction with how women have sexualized practically every aspect of their body according to their fashion choices and see other women as enemies in the competition to attract the attention of men, they may naturally attract the good men or they may unnaturally attract the boys, juveniles, creeps, and/or perverts (the good men would stand up and defend you from); but you then accuse all the honest good men along with the boys as being juveniles, creeps, and/or perverts.


Even statistically, women are ungrateful hypocrites at almost anything. Around 70% of divorces are initiated by wives for the freedoms you saw other women have partying and such, but then you’re all on your own having to finance everything yourself, and are ungrateful that your good man is now already remarried.


Also, statistically women are less likely to receive necessary lifesaving CPR/AED measures by men (and women) because of men having to (according to good faith Good Samaritan implied consent doctrine) make women topless to save her life and end up going bankrupt from the woman he saved suing him for sexual assault and/or rape, destroying his life and reputation.


The majority of you apparently do not have a loud enough activism voice to stand up for your fellow female women who are forced to compete against biologically superior males in physical endurance and advantage competitions.


With all the conglomerate of all of these points, you all come across as selfish suicidal sexual narcissists. The apparent majority of all of you female women are at war with each other for a whole array of lifestyle and fashion choices for personal reasons and in front of men for their attention. And when your focus on flaunting your unnatural sexuality in front of good men, you only attract the bad boys, juveniles, creeps, and perverts. You accuse all men for being these bad boys, including all the good men. You expect men to be mind readers, instead of using your big girl words to express your attraction to a good man. And then you wonder where all the good men are and why the good men are no longer pursuing women. Women appear to think being preoccupied on warring against your female sexual fashion enemies with flaunting your unnatural sexuality is attractive to good men, it’s not.


Maybe being open with your natural bra size as well as your other sizes, not being so preoccupied about your appearance or unnatural sexuality, but are naturally peaceful modest and casual (regardless of your attire) is more attractive to the good men.


Putting others down in order to build yourself up is in my perspective the very reality of weakness, insecurity, and ungratefulness. In some element, I believe most good men don’t necessarily care how you look, though appearance does contribute, but more so about who you are as a person. Good men feel like they are at war out in the world. They see when women are at war with each other over the smallest issues as very unattractive (unfashionable). Such perceptions imply conflict when dating, being exclusive, engaged, or in marriage; but good men value peace at home or in their relationships, not warring against other women.


It’s ironic how the stereotypical woman tends to be a pacifist and against standing up using a gun in personal self-defense to neutralize a bad boy rapist, but these such ungrateful women are in a sometimes violent war over the insignificant minuscule issues in fashion or lifestyle against other ungrateful women.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Some women are hyperfixating on appearances, could be personality based, social class based, country specific, or any combination.

It's actually tricky to raise daughters out of this competitive system, little girls are going to be complimented about looks and clothing a lot by their surroundings. They'll also grow up with mainstream social media reinforcing this effect. Many will have the tools to stand back, think and question that system. But not all.

[RavVid]

I've notice women past 30 are quite censorious of what 20's women don't wear.

Quoting "I want to slap them and tell them next time wear a skirt; not a belt"

[Sirenboobzilla]

It's never made sense to me and it's always been annoying 😑 🙄

[DonaldDarko]

I don't know. Seems like there is a lot of back stabbing and moral degeneracy amoung them. They'll kill each other over men like chimpanzees. Maybe men should pay attention to how their women treat other women. They might learn something.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

women dont like when other women, especially those who are hotter than them dress better than they do. it makes them feel inferior and unable to back that "what does she got that I dont have?" statement

[sage2021]

I'm not judgmental and could care less about what other people wear.

[loveslongnails]

Hmmm... because too many women think their star will be brighter is yours is dimmer. Then you'll tell US guys that we're too competitive. Right.

[ohsheeT]

The question should be why are women so mean to each other with everything

[Berethor]

Well men don't understand fashion so why would we be judgmental about about that? :)

[Alex757]

I think it comes from jealousy & envy, maybe that girl can fit in a dress better than another girl. Girls can get really catty about this sort of thing, it is not healthy at all!

[Tomislav7]

women are generally stupid, shallow, judgmental and insecure. But they make up for it by virtue signaling in their politics

[genericname85]

Cause if they didn't give a shit, litterally nobody would xD

[Anonymous]

Guys get Shamed for having insecurities all the time by Women no matter what decisions Guys make.

Women make decisions with their insecuities all the time, But they dont get Shamed even when their decisions are wrong.

[LC75LC71]

Because they are women! It usually extends beyond fashion, which can be funny.

[beefcakebradybatson]

They're competing for men as well as outdoing other women.

[dougeats]

I dont know but I see a lot of females with elevator eyes looking at women

[askthis56]

May be they are jeaolus about each other that s way they are judmental about each other

[Kingofkings1992]

Couldn't care less * it's just how women are. Women are like cats

[Randomguy28]

Because women's are loveable

[beenherebefore]

Competition and insecurity.

[Dargil]

It's like measuring dick size.

[FreyaRed]

Vanity.

[blackeagle007]

Insecurity, being competitive.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Men judge men based on other stuff