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Do you think my coworker is playing me?

So tonight I hung out with a coworker of mine. We met after he transferred from his old store to our store (we work in a supermarket) so we've been acquittance for like 7 or 8 months. I always thought of him as some sort of player. Well we hung out and he likes to get high (which is fine, I prefer alcohol). But we got really close. I began flirting and all sorts and he then began kissing me. Ever since then we couldn't stop kissing one another. I've had a few dreams about this guy while I was dating my recent ex boyfriend. My coworker is cute and he said that he has always found me cute, but that he is kinda shy so that's why he didn't tell me and because I had a boyfriend at the time. He said he was surprised that my ex and I broke up because he thought I was happy. I asked him if he was a player and he said no, he said when he has a girlfriend he is faithful to her. We went to the movies to see Men in Black III and we were holding hands on and off during the movie, after and before it. He was very sweet to me. We did not have sex or anything but he was touching my breasts which I liked. But I am trying to be certain that he isn't a player. He said he doesn't want to rush things and I asked him if he would prove to me that he wants to date me and that he isn't a player. He said he wants to make an effort into proving to me that he's not a player. I am 20 and he's 24. by the way, we are not worried about dating just because we work together. My friend and her boyfriend met there and they work in the same department (same as this guy and I do) and another couple works there too. I am trying to not get too exited about all of this, I want to see if he will put the same amount of effort in as I do. I had fun hanging with him, but did not expect any of this. He didn't really text me while my ex and I dated, and he made an effort to call me twice today.
Do you think my coworker is playing me?
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