Is it considered cheating to go to a club and dance with members of the opposite gender? (Page 2)
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almost 50/50 seriously? DANCING IS CHEATING TO YOU PPL? good lord...
Next thing I know, just looking at someone will be considered cheating...
(I voted B by the way. And QA, don't generalize all guys as bad dancers, plz).
Would you like it if your boyfriend is grinding on some girls ass? I know I wouldn't. This is not cheating but a form of cheating that can lead to bad behavior later on.
Oh I know I wouldn't like it if he did that. I decided he and I can go clubbing together but not alone. Club guys scare the bejeebus out of me.
Would you twerk on your father?
Would you twerk on your grandfather?
Your uncle? Your brother?
I guess it isn't so platonic then.
It'd probably be disrespectful or inconsiderate, but I wouldn't go as far as to say it's cheating.
It totally depends on the boundaries you and your partner set. There is no universal rule.
My general approach is: "if I wouldn't do it in front of them, I won't do it at all".
it's not cheating, but it's kind of f***ed to me.
"oh yeah, I was just grinding on her ass...no big deal." I may be blowing it out of proportion though.
Considered cheating by whom? I mean, what should matter to you, is if your boyfriend considers it cheating. You two should talk about your "set of rules" within your relationship.
Yes and no. Depends if it hurts your boyfriend. If I hurts the guy or woman, the person is cheating. If your gonna go out then take your boyfriend and dance with him.
Well it depends, if you're out grinding on some random guy and your boyfriend is on the sidelines forced to watched you then yeah it sorta is. However, if it's casual dancing then nah
I think it depends on the type of dancing. If you're grinding on them or slow dancing, then I'd consider it cheating. But if you're just doing the cha cha slide or whatever, then it's fine.
No it is not but I also don't date girls who go to clubs(frequently). It would only be cheating in my opinion if there was things like groping and stuff.
Depends on how you are dancing, if its no contact, no rubbing, nothing sexual just across from them then no, if its crossing those lines then yes.
I think if you're asking the question, you obviously see a dilemma and that's never a good thing. If in doubt, go without. If you choose to though, discuss it with your partner.
Depends on whether you're out all the time solo, and what kind of dancing. More important though, is why you're doing it.
Depends on the type of dance. I feel some dances cross the line and come across as cheating. Others types of dances I don't have an issue with.
dancing. not cheating.. dry humping on beat to music? I think so. especially if you have in mind "i had zero chemistry with any guy there" ... why would you even care for chemistry with any guy there if you have a bf?
That update was in response to an answer previously given. Sorry for any confusion.
oh I see I see. sorry for jumping to conclusions! lol
Oh no, it's fine. There are a lot of responses to this question. I can understand that you wouldn't want to read them all and did not see that one particular answer.
depends on the dancing. Dirty dancing yes cheating but just dancing is cool.
NOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Of Course NOT!
Unless you live in Iran? Then I'm not sure ...
That's not a club
That's not dancing
That's a bar for kids that can't handle liquor ... dance ... nor gals
Don't tell me that's how ALL the places are these days ... and where in the world IS this? (not Texas!)
Get into a dance class requiring no partners - things will change
Its definitely not cheating. My opinion is that the more you put yourself out there the easier it is to cheat or for someone to approach you and then you end up interested in them and sh*t goes all wrong from there. But go have fun!
It's dancing!
If this is a concern your relationship has no trust...