" Wake up call "- It's a night club and it all body language like humping your butt etc . People go there to " Pick up " or have sex in there. I note you said " I'll probably not go again " yeah right...
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No, you don't get it. I am the most modest homebody ever. I was so far out of my comfort zone and not in a good way. If I ever go to a club again, I'm dragging my man along with me.
So you are saying you made a bad decision to go to the night club ? You went because you wanted to go and still want to go as I'm dragging my man along with me. OK, so your man can watch you get humped all night ?
If I go back. I like dancing and all, but more so in a wedding setting or high school dance :p the drinking and general air of pig-headed guys and slutty girls didn't appeal to me at all. Hell. I kept my coat on the whole time.
Not cheating... but I definitely wouldn't want my girl doing that. The guys intention is set on one thing if he is at the club dancing and I would feel that hers isn't far off.
You can say what you will about the word, but the CONCEPT of "wrong" definitely exists, there's really no arguing with that.
If a couple has established an open relationship, then cheating isn't wrong- but in that case it really isn't cheating at all, is it? Cheating hurts and disrespects people. Making me try to prove that it's is wrong is like asking me to prove that apples exist. It just shouldn't be necessary.
You're using the word wrong, so how can it not exist? WHO says right and wrong don't exist? Okay, there are definitely grey areas, but that doesn't mean there's no such thing as right and wrong. If I go shoot a toddler in the head, that's not wrong because "wrong doesn't exist"? Come on. It might be a social construction but that doesn't mean that it's not real or that it's not important.
I don't agree with that. Sure, a lot of humans do stupid or destructive things. We make mistakes. There are selfish, careless people out there. But the human race as a whole definitely doesn't act like the world doesn't even exist. If we did, things would be much worse and more chaotic.
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YES and it's only cheating if you get "Found out " right , der
" Wake up call "- It's a night club and it all body language like humping your butt etc . People go there to " Pick up " or have sex in there. I note you said " I'll probably not go again " yeah right...
No, you don't get it. I am the most modest homebody ever. I was so far out of my comfort zone and not in a good way. If I ever go to a club again, I'm dragging my man along with me.
So you are saying you made a bad decision to go to the night club ? You went because you wanted to go and still want to go as I'm dragging my man along with me. OK, so your man can watch you get humped all night ?
I went for a friend's birthday. And I stood there awkwardly. If I go back, I'm only dancing with my boyfriend. I'm not some skank, just so you know.
When you do go back there then you better wear a sign saying " I am only dancing with my boyfriend " so you don't get humped by other guys.
If I go back. I like dancing and all, but more so in a wedding setting or high school dance :p the drinking and general air of pig-headed guys and slutty girls didn't appeal to me at all. Hell. I kept my coat on the whole time.
"If I go back " You will, As for Pig-headed guys , Slutty girls, is full of judgement, Blame, Projection, Denial etc. If it's bad there why go back ?
If I was your boyfriend and you "Dragged "me there I would be leaving the club with a HOT SEXY woman , leaving you there. XXX
I don't consider it as cheating unless you're really touching each other, but I would be jealous. I might not show it but I definetely would be.
Not cheating... but I definitely wouldn't want my girl doing that. The guys intention is set on one thing if he is at the club dancing and I would feel that hers isn't far off.
I am a very jealous type of person. I would not like it.
It depends griding kinda is.
i don't consider it cheating
No , unless grinding is involved.
maybe not literally but it's a betrayal of trust.
As long as it's just dancing and nothing else, no.
No.
That said, cheating is not wrong.
How the hell is cheating not wrong?
clarify that please
If people wish to cheat, it's their prerogative.
Its wrong
wrong? that word doesn't exist.
moreover, who are you to determine what is wrong or what people do? lol.. people like you never cease to amaze me.
guess if it's my prerogative to commit genocide, then it isn't wrong either
You can say what you will about the word, but the CONCEPT of "wrong" definitely exists, there's really no arguing with that.
If a couple has established an open relationship, then cheating isn't wrong- but in that case it really isn't cheating at all, is it? Cheating hurts and disrespects people. Making me try to prove that it's is wrong is like asking me to prove that apples exist. It just shouldn't be necessary.
Who are you to determine that cheating is right?
You are saying it's wrong. haha.. Right and wrong clearly don't exist in life. You all say so all the time.
You're using the word wrong, so how can it not exist? WHO says right and wrong don't exist? Okay, there are definitely grey areas, but that doesn't mean there's no such thing as right and wrong. If I go shoot a toddler in the head, that's not wrong because "wrong doesn't exist"? Come on. It might be a social construction but that doesn't mean that it's not real or that it's not important.
it doesn't exist. don't let reality phase you.
If you're going to treat life as though nothing matters because nothing really exists, it defeats the purpose of living.
This is how human beings act. We act as we please, without regard to anything else. duh...
I don't agree with that. Sure, a lot of humans do stupid or destructive things. We make mistakes. There are selfish, careless people out there. But the human race as a whole definitely doesn't act like the world doesn't even exist. If we did, things would be much worse and more chaotic.
A little.
wouldn't bother me