Don't hesitate to be cold and bitchy. Works a little too effectively but I don't mind it haha. I'm not heartless but I understand that I am not supposed to be giving it out to everyone.
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In real life, just politely let them down really. If colleagues, just have to tell them the truth that you're simply unavailable. Online, they can be persistent so just ignore.
I hint them that I like someone else 🤔
Call the police.
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I totally ignore the person. So I don't encourage them
I laugh it off and change topic or tell them I am married to a beautiful woman and we're pregnant
I ignore it. pretend it's not there. I never notice it in the first place.
Sometimes with a restraining order.
Shy girls asking guys out. Try not to cringe:
https://youtu.be/3AVsm2XK4Uk
Iāve had women cold approach me before. And I do feel bad for rejecting them.
NYC Subway, Manhattan streets, girls over here are savages. Confidence through the roof. I always reject them in the nicest way possible āI admire your courage but Iām takenā- Smile, and walk away.
The only time I gave a girl my number (my work number) is when she was genuine about the approach. āIām working on building my confidence and I was wondering if I could get your numberā.For me, it's always worked to just ignore their advances for a day or two, then they go away. I might have had one or two really persistent girls, but then I've just pulled them aside and told them as politely as possible that it's not going to happen.
If they don't bother me that much then I don't do anything. But the moment it goes out on my every day life in some way or the other, then I sitt down with them and just Flatt out say "we will never date, and that's not your fault but I need to tell you this so you can move on, we will never happen"
Depends. If I can, I just ignore them. If they are forward but polite, I politely but firmly decline. If they're rude, I may be rude too.
And if they're actually scary, it depends again. I've been groped in a tight crowd once. I was just scared, so I changed positions with friends until he could no longer reach me, instead of being brave and making a scene.I blow them away with a Hadouken because it's down right fierce.
I'd straight up let them know I'm not interested. Usually they stop if they have any self respect. And the shameless ones who persist, I just don't respond to them and ignore them completely.
Oof I hate it, I feel trapped because I donāt want to hurt their feelings, but I donāt like them. Especially when they never take a hint.
Just do this. It works in these kinds of situations as well.
https://youtu.be/8wRXa971Xw0Firmly yet politely let them know that I appreciate the sentiment, but I'm not interested.
xx
~ Mrs MansonIgnore, be stuck up and mean- it works for majority
ignore them and if that doesnāt work then i tell them i donāt like them and to leave me alone
Let me Guess...
*Tries to remember what unknowngaguser did with him last time*
Ahemm...
*Fails to recall, and goes unconscious thinking too deep*I would tell them straightforward that Iām not interested and theyāre wasting their time with me.
I personally would feel grateful. People want attention then they don't want attention, it's either one or the other. You're either are romantic or not.
No one ever approaches me in person. Always online. But i always block them
All attention is good for the confidence of a person
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