How do you deal with unwanted romantic attention?

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CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Don't hesitate to be cold and bitchy. Works a little too effectively but I don't mind it haha. I'm not heartless but I understand that I am not supposed to be giving it out to everyone.

shimmeryns · Accepted Answer

In real life, just politely let them down really. If colleagues, just have to tell them the truth that you're simply unavailable. Online, they can be persistent so just ignore.

hotstuffSRD · Accepted Answer

I hint them that I like someone else 🤔

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Call the police.

Fitness-Fanatic · Answer

I totally ignore the person. So I don't encourage them

Pinay_ako · Answer

I laugh it off and change topic or tell them I am married to a beautiful woman and we're pregnant

CoffeeWC · Answer

I ignore it. pretend it's not there. I never notice it in the first place.

Goodwifie · Answer

Sometimes with a restraining order.

sexyasianboi26 · Answer

Shy girls asking guys out. Try not to cringe:

https://youtu.be/3AVsm2XK4Uk

I’ve had women cold approach me before. And I do feel bad for rejecting them.

NYC Subway, Manhattan streets, girls over here are savages. Confidence through the roof. I always reject them in the nicest way possible “I admire your courage but I’m taken”- Smile, and walk away.

The only time I gave a girl my number (my work number) is when she was genuine about the approach. “I’m working on building my confidence and I was wondering if I could get your number”.

AlexanderBrunnrgaard · Answer

For me, it's always worked to just ignore their advances for a day or two, then they go away. I might have had one or two really persistent girls, but then I've just pulled them aside and told them as politely as possible that it's not going to happen.

megaman242 · Answer

If they don't bother me that much then I don't do anything. But the moment it goes out on my every day life in some way or the other, then I sitt down with them and just Flatt out say "we will never date, and that's not your fault but I need to tell you this so you can move on, we will never happen"

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. If I can, I just ignore them. If they are forward but polite, I politely but firmly decline. If they're rude, I may be rude too.

And if they're actually scary, it depends again. I've been groped in a tight crowd once. I was just scared, so I changed positions with friends until he could no longer reach me, instead of being brave and making a scene.

Tymeflies · Answer

I blow them away with a Hadouken because it's down right fierce.

kira992 · Answer

I'd straight up let them know I'm not interested. Usually they stop if they have any self respect. And the shameless ones who persist, I just don't respond to them and ignore them completely.

amy_rose_1418 · Answer

Oof I hate it, I feel trapped because I don’t want to hurt their feelings, but I don’t like them. Especially when they never take a hint.

anniisa · Answer

Just do this. It works in these kinds of situations as well.

MrMansonsPocketPssy · Answer

Firmly yet politely let them know that I appreciate the sentiment, but I'm not interested. xx ~ Mrs Manson

luvstoned4him · Answer

Ignore, be stuck up and mean- it works for majority

blaairnic · Answer

ignore them and if that doesn’t work then i tell them i don’t like them and to leave me alone

Nik1hil · Answer

Let me Guess...  *Tries to remember what unknowngaguser did with him last time* Ahemm...  *Fails to recall, and goes unconscious thinking too deep*

MissChasityL · Answer

I would tell them straightforward that I’m not interested and they’re wasting their time with me.

Ioso29640 · Answer

I personally would feel grateful. People want attention then they don't want attention, it's either one or the other. You're either are romantic or not.

txdiie_ · Answer

No one ever approaches me in person. Always online. But i always block them

justme212 · Answer

All attention is good for the confidence of a person

wiseyoungman · Answer

I've never experienced sucha thing. All romantic attention is welcome. I just say no if I don't want them.

codycccccccccc · Answer

See how much useful work and blowjobs I can get out of her before she becomes to annoying to handle then ignore her tell she takes a hint

lightbulb27 · Answer

easy with women, they back off fast. stop talking, go somewhere else.

lord_chilled · Answer

Not sure, i haven't had a girls openly show interest in me since i left school.  And people say im way too oblivious to notice subtle hints and signs.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Tell them to bugger off. If they keep persisting I punch them.

crazy8000 · Answer

Lean back observe the show that person accomplish. It can be very amusing. At the same time go on with what I'm up to.

grashopper · Answer

For men, it's easy: Tell them I'm not interested. Fuck them anyway, and then tell them I'm not interested. Block/unfriend them (for the more uglier ones).

HikerDude · Answer

I don't. People are allowed to like me, even if I don't feel the same way toward them.

Rashad · Answer

I lead them on, if I like them a lot I have sex with them. If I’m not attracted, I get a bj.

Massageman · Answer

I'm pushing 70. I'll take any attention I can get ;- )

MouthfulofDiamonds · Answer

I'm always up front with people that I'm not interested in it make it absolutely clear I'm not interested or available

Anonymous · Answer

I rub my nipples and start licking my lips and hump the air aaaa baby throw me againt that desk mommy

ChiPaPa · Answer

Fufufufufufu! I get no romantic attention at all IRL!

Britguy100 · Answer

Just be straight with that person that your not interested

Anonymous · Answer

I like it. It’s just sometimes it’s risky to show it at certain places.

Anonymous · Answer

Ignore at first. If they don’t get the hint then politely yet directly tell them. If that doesn’t work then it’s time to get pissed.

Anonymous · Answer

Being mean to men isn't the answer ladies. Keep doing that along with continue to lie and play games and u will be single in your 30s and no man will want to date u.

Anonymous · Answer

Reject it or ignore it

Anonymous · Answer

Two words: "Rack off!"

Anonymous · Answer

From a guy you don't like, or just the guy you like, but, isn't the right time?

Anonymous · Answer

I’m not sure since I never experienced it, probably just tell them to stop

Tilin29 · Answer

I don't, because I don't get any lmao.

Levin · Answer

Ignore and disappear. I'm a bastard.

dantetheexplorer · Answer

Why does he need binoculars?

Anonymous · Answer

I'll let her suck my dick. But I let her know I'm not interested in datng her.

Madison2001 · Answer

Ignoring is the best option

Ankitasingh466 · Answer

Il just say "no sex for 3 weeks".

Eleni91 · Answer

Tell them I’m not that much into them.

PawnOgre4 · Answer

My alarm clock deals with that.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Bang her. Then tell her I'm not interested.

monkeynutts · Answer

A colt 45 has a lot of stopping power.

fueledbythc · Answer

i ignore them. i do not awknowledge it at all.

vannika · Answer

Ignore is the best way though

GamerKitty · Answer

I say in a polite manner that I am not interested.

ryryryan · Answer

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GreenGold1992 · Answer

I try making myself unlikable

TheAceholeSupreme666 · Answer

I walk away without a word.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I honestly just ignore them

LuWe22 · Answer

Tell them I have a boyfriend

Anonymous · Answer

I ignore it. Success rate: 100%

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