I’d love to hear what any husbands who stop by have to say in answer to this question. I personally believe that a marriage contract has been breached the moment either the wife gets pregnant by another man or the husband gets another woman pregnant. There is no longer a marriage at that point as far as I’m concerned. Sometimes I find myself holding very antiquated and sexist views. I’m not bragging about that as it’s nothing to brag about. I’m just being honest in admitting that I am not always consistent in my opinions and that my opinions about cheating sometimes change depending on the gender of the cheater. For example I can more easily find reasons for a wife to stay with her husband if he’s cheated and gotten another woman pregnant than I can find for a man to stay with his wife. It seems somehow worse to me when a wife steps out on her husband and gets pregnant by another man, and I see it as somehow indicative of a weakness in character when a man stays with his wife under those circumstances. To get pregnant by another man to me is just the ultimate insult to your husband. So I pose the question to any husband who is reading, if your wife got pregnant by another man would you stay and if you would stay what would be your reasoning in deciding to stay?
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Most Helpful Girl
As a female who is also a Wise ol Owl... It is One's Own choice in this Mucky Matter.
Knowing what she did to you and didn't even have the Gall and All to Use any protection, She may never stop Cheating. A baby can cause a Rut in a Relationship when times get Rough.
She has Cheated you even with having a Child together because this one Doesn't belong to you and always Will be a Constant reminder, All way round, Of what she did behind closed doors with another.
You are so right here, dear... You never get over it.
Good luck. xx2
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Most Helpful Guy
I have been cheated on multiple times. I will never visit that kind of pain on my wife or any one else. Never have never will. My wife and i have an understanding, that if she cheats, She is gone. i will change the locks and move all of her stuff to my front deck. I will call her parents and have them get her stuff. I have zero room in my life for disloyalty, Period. I will stop all communications between me and her, and i will disconnect her cell phone (it is on my plan, she does not pay for it). Finally i will hire the best lawyer in town, and file for divorce.
In a marriage cheating is never acceptable for either party. A woman that chooses that path, is not a woman any more, and she automatically accepts the consequences of her actions. A man that chooses that path, is not a man any more, and he automatically accepts the consequences of his actions.2