Guys, have you ever regrettet acting like a total jerk towards a girl/girls?
If she was nice, cute, friendly etc. , what drove you to acting cold, distant etc. (jerk behaviour)?
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Yup. Had a few incidents like this. I feel bad about it now but honestly most of it was usually a knee jerk reaction to something else. There was this one girl I was friends with for years. She was pretty cool. We'd talk about our relationships/sex, funny shit etc . Nothing was really taboo so it was pretty educational actually. Anyways, eventually of course we had sex. Everything was cool after that at first and we just went about like usual. This went on for a couple of months. One day I was on the phone with her and she was telling me about some guy she slept with the other night and how awful it was, 2 pump chump, etc ... we were both laughing about it but I couldn't help that it actually kind of bothered me. Like I was genuinely surprised that it bothered me and I couldn't believe I was actually kind of angry about it. Of course, I never mentioned any of it to her or anything and I think I played it off pretty well that I wasn't bothered. I started to distance myself though. Not completely jerk wise I don't think. Just not be as quick to answer calls\texts. Not as available to hang out as much. Stuff like that. Finally, there was one day I hadn't seen her in a while and called her up, asked if she wanted to hang out. She said no which she hardly ever said no unless there was something really important going on so I asked why not. She just said she didn't think it was a good idea. Well, that set me off. So we got into this stupid argument. She was mad too and asked if I'd just gotten into the friendship so I could have sex with her. Being the dumbass that I am and how angry I was about her sleeping with someone else and now this shit I said yes. That was the reason behind being friends with her. So, yeah we never talked again after that. Sucks too. Wish I would've handled that a lot better.0