I'd like to say you didn't do anything wrong here. So, there is no second chance to be given to you. Did you ask what he thought about the direction of the relationship? Maybe he didn't want a romantic relationship at all if you know what I mean. And when you said friends, he thought best to move along since that wasn't what you were interested in.
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You need to make it clear to him that you want to get to know him, and that you are open to/intending for it to be a romantic relationship if everything goes well.
He lost interest because he figured you were friendzoning him. Since that's not what you meant, tell him and he might well come back!
Honestly, I think the only reason why a guy wouldn't give a girl a second chance would be because they either A) absolutely shattered his heart or B) are just crazy
Yes maybe he is just waiting for you to tell him that you like him that way too
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That's what happened when a guy becomes impatient but as a general rule dating is about having fun, hooking up ended up in bed together and not thinking of whether being exclusive until the girl is comfortable to speak it out that she wants to be exclusive.
hmm.. I am tempted to say; if he won't talk to you now coz you said friends, then he was never interested anyway.
Usually, if a guy likes a girl, he will talk to her.. even if he wants more but knows its only friendship - coz he genuinely likes her. My guess is he was only after one thing, and now he thinks that's not happening, there is no reason left to talk!Be direct.
Just approach him and say that you want a relationship with him and that you only wanted to start as friends so that you could get to know each other better, and that you now regret that you said that. Ask him if he wants a relationship with you now.It all depends who she is and what she did, when my ex dumped me and wanted me back days later, I rejected her. In my opinion, once a relationship has ended, it is "dead" meaning forever, find a new man, you deserve a fresh start
Honestly, I would not give a girl a second chance, but depending on how attached and how forgiving the person is, it could go either way.
Once a guy feels he is friendzoned, that's almost impossibleto recover from
Too bad, you probably won't get a second chanceI would, as long as you didn't try to put me in the friendzone again haha
Since you didn't do anything evil, by all means try again.
I voted yes. But as you can see by my pic I have a better chance winning the lottery. before I get a date/GF.
and second and third and fourth...
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