The past 3 months me and this girl have texted everyday and hung out almost every Sunday. However, I'm always the one to ask her to hang out. I've brought that up to her, saying she can ask me to hang out too, but she said she never asks anyone to hang out (not even her best friend).
Anyway, the past 3 Sundays when I asked her if she was free to hang out, she's responded by saying she wants to, but she's way too busy with whatever schoolwork is due the next day. I honestly can't tell if they are excuses if she really is that busy.
So this Sunday is coming up, and I'm not even sure if it is worth my time to ask her if she's free. I really want to see her (because I've been planning on telling her I like her) but I feel like I've been coming off as desperate. Plus, I know that if I don't initiate a hangout, we won't see each other because she never asks anyone to hangout. Any thoughts/advice is appreciated!
- Other (Please elaborate)Vote A
- No, don't botherVote B
- Yes, you should tryVote C
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Most Helpful Girl
you have to take in thought of your social status along with hers. thats always first. its stupid and a sad reailty. second, ask her out!!! GO FOR IT!!! if you like her for HER. then DO IT!
i understand your getting a bit tired of always waiting on her... but some girls dont open up about the shit they are going through at the moment, and maybe she has a lot on her plate. if your getting really desparate for an answer, my best advice... at the time your gonna ask her out, regardless of her answer, (yes or no) sit her down and ask her if she's gonna be real about you. if she really shares the best feelings! FIND OUT! you dont want to be fooled or friend zoned... LET ME KNOW HOW IT GOES!!! best of luck ~