My ex-boyfriend split up with me over a month and a half ago now. I met someone else and starting dating them literally a week after are split of being together for over a year. I thought this would be ok seeing as he broke up with me. We were still in contact, and he finally said to me he wanted to try things over again, and I stupidly told him I'm seeing someone else, but I will end it with them just to give us another chance! He now won't talk to me, I don't know whether this is because I have hurt him telling him I was with someone else, and now he hates me. I have given him 2 weeks not contacting him. but I still regret how things have turned out and want to talk to him. but I don't think he wants to no any more. but if he really wanted to start things over again why would he now ignore me?
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okay let me tell you from a guys perspective who is going thru the exact same thing at this very moment, I broke up with my girlfriend she cheated on me but not like sex it was just dancing with some guy at a club I thought if she can do this while I am here what will she do when I am not here. okay so the breakup between us is justified we dated for 9 months till that we were very in love first lovers in fact, after 3 weeks I wanted her back I said I love you I'm sorry that wasn't that big of a deal, she says nope I moved on there is nothing to bring back, turns out she has been in another relationship for 3 weeks, I was crushed that hurts more than her saying no because how can someone who loves me who I put my needs before hers just throw it all away in 3 weeks? he obviously wants you back but he doesn't know how he could take you back because the fall was so hard he can't even pick himself up again, it really crushes a mans confidence if someone they loved could just toss it out like garbage for another, I'm not being rude or anyting but youve been pretty selfish you thought about your needs you rebounded, you can always fix a broken heart only if your the one the heart has been givin to, if you time will heal a broken heart, so don't make the mistake in waiting too long, maybe it has been too long, but if he really wanted this and you put the most effort in and show him that you really need him he will like that.0