Tinder Example: I'll match with someone on tinder, send a message, but then they won't answer... Yet they stay on my matched list? Wtf?
POF Example: Well this one, barely any girls reply and if they do, the convo lasts a few responses, then they disappear. Wtf? Then you try sending them another message a few days later and they dont respond wtf is that?
Most Helpful Girl
Well, with dating sites I'll only answer some guys back. I get an overwhelming amount of messages daily/nightly. I try to answer those that seem legit, like took time to read my profile and asked about something I wrote. I don't respond to the ones asking for sex. If I have been talking back and forth for a bit, and the guy doesn't seem like a good match, I'll let him know it's not working, I don't stop communicating. Something like
"Hi, [name]. You're a nice guy, but I'm just not feeling it. I wish you the best of luck." and usually have gotten mature respectable responses.
If they aren't answering back, they may be talking to other guys more and you just didn't keep their attention I'm afraid. Keep trying, though.0
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Most Helpful Guy
I'm above average looking, and I have the same issues.
I think out of 10 girls, only one gave her number.
Girls use these sites with really high expectations.1