Most Helpful Girl
They are allowed to but, because of evolutionary reasons women are attracted to more confident and less insecure men. They are seen as protectors. As we are evolving and our minds our opening these gender oriented barriers are breaking. Girls also like sensitive guys. But confidence is something even guys desire in a girl. It is just attractive when you see someone love themselves enough to not be insecure. It's easier to love someone who loves them self and is strong enough to hide their insecurities. We all have insecurities, some more, some less. That's perfectly normal.0
Most Helpful Guy
"I'm talking lacking confidence cause of looks or being insecure about them because women before have walked all over that confidence or self esteem"
Don't care about women turning you down. It's not a big deal. It only becomes a big deal if you build some dream behind it, getting so emotionally invested into the outcomes. A negative outcome, even the harshest kind of rejection, won't be a big deal if you were never that invested in the first place -- okay, next girl.
Apathy and confidence can be somehow blurred. I have a friend who just has a "whatever" mindset to life in general. He owns a shop and doesn't have any kind of schedule, just opens it whenever he feels like, closes it when he doesn't feel like working. And he gets so much female attention, because he can just walk straight up to any woman and just start casually talking without being remotely invested in whether she likes him or not.
If building a positive, glowing outlook of yourself seems too hard initially, try that instead: apathy. "Whatever, that girl didn't like me, I'll try another one."
Persistence pays off here.0