Makes some sense to me.
My strongest feelings for my wife tend to develop when I'm on business trips and miss her presence. It's one of my rituals to keep our relationship passionate after years of marriage.
That said, I fell in love in the bedroom for the two women I truly loved more than any other in my life.
Yet perhaps the strongest emotions of being without the girl and absolutely missing the girl were always when she wasn't there. After all, we can't miss something that's there.
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I believe it's kinda true. I mean a guy falls in love in presence of a woman but only realises it after that woman goes away for a while. At least that happened with me. It was obvious to everyone except me. Once she went away I realised what I was feeling the whole time.
I believe so. My boyfriend didn't tell me he loved me until we were separated for two weeks and could see each other. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, it lets you see how life it without that person. You also start to miss them... if you miss them you think about them, if you think about them and all their good qualities you start to develop feelings.
That's how I see it any way.
This explains a lot.
yeah I think it could be. I think it's more about not taking the other person for granted.
Sometimes we see someone all the time and get bored or annoyed of them pretty easily. But when we stop seeing that person we think... I miss them.
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Maybe for a while at least. I have spent over a year away from my girlfriend in the States and it was hard. At first I spent a lot of time looking at her pictures and really feeling awful but after almost a year away and still a few months to go I have learned to cope with it better. But I really have increased in y love towards her since I have been gone, I guess you learn really how much she means to you when you leave and if it is worth waiting for it to last or if its better to let go. Time makes you decide what to do.
Of course same goes for women once me and some women would always stare and then I disappeared she started trying to approach me but failed and blushes. As I kept disappearing it started to show a lot more then I disappeared again and although I didn't see her I wanted to approach her but to late so I let her know by commenting on her facebook picture n her be found out , when she seen me the following day her be was mopey. And she turned to me when he wasn't looking with a big smile and stared right at me. Which to this day I still question what she ment by the long smile
I think it means that you can't be all in his face all the time and that you should have some time apart. sometimes you need space or he'll get sick of you and take you for granted
i SERIOUSLY doubt that. i dont like those quotes that portray men to be void of emotion.
I'm not a dude, but I think this could be true in the sense that we don't really know what we got til it's gone sorta thing. We all seem to take others for granted sometimes, so I can see this being true in that aspect.
On the other hand tho, men need an emotional attachment to a woman to fall in love. So seeing her and spending time with her to gain that attachment is helpful.yea in the sense that your feelings for someone grows much more when the person is not around you...
that's how i see it anywaysMy ex always told me he needed me next to him or he wouldn't be able to love me: "if I'm alone, I may like it and prefer to be that way".
We had a long distance relationship... He cheated and now is in another long distance relationship :P
I believe he had a LDR with his previous girlfriend too... :/This is sort of correct. But not true.
The correct statement is:
"You realise how much someone means to you when you lose them"
AKA you realise how much you love them when they aren't around and you miss them.Pfff I blatantly disagree
Too much absence just makes people to have u absent from their heart. Why? Cause if they dont make an effort, they forget about u. Its inevitable.no. its bullshit. no one falls in love in absence. fall;ling in love requires chemical reactions. being apart makes you miss a person but if you dont already feel for them the feelings just dissipate.
They might miss her and feel like they need her in their life more than anything but that doesn't mean they fall in love with her when she wasn't even around
Out of sight out of mind dear, unless you are married, or deeply deeply in love with that woman.
I can't speak for all men but it I'm to fall in love with a girl I will have to be near them to get to know them and once I know I like them then I will think of them when I'm not near them.
its bullshit. What are you suppose to do in the meantime? have a relationship with the ghost of their presence? LOL
Maybe for some guys but it's the opposite for me. I need that quality time.
That sounds like something a woman would say. Not true for guys though.
Yeah, I fall in love with the other girl...
-_-It's the exact opposite. The more time I spend with a woman, the stronger my feelings for her.
I don't think so. It's only true if the love is already there
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