I'm not referring to someone who's shy. I'm meaning by someone who just doesn't talk much. A lot of the times, I don't like to talk to people, but when I do find someone who isn't annoying, I can carry a decent conversation. I guess I should really ask if people in general find others intimidating or boring from someone who is pretty introverted
Most Helpful Girl
I prefer a middle ground. Someone who doesn't blab about pointless things, but also someone who isn't quiet all the time. If a guy doesn't talk much, I'll probably find him boring, or think he isn't interested in me.
Not talking much also doesn't really have anything to do with introversion. Introversion is simply about how you relax. Introverted people relax by being withdrawn, maybe with a good book or movie. Extroverted people relax in the company of others and get anxious when they haven't talked to or seen someone in a while. Whereas introverted people get anxious when they've been with a lot of people for a while and they feel overwhelmed by all the interactions. Introverted people can still be very talkative.0
Most Helpful Guy
Yes and no.
When you first meet a girl you have to do more talking than you may necessarily want in the beginning. Past that you just need to be a good listener. You don't have to be the one doing the talking. But you do have to engage her. If she finds you interesting past what you have to say, then it really doesn't matter.
But engaging conversation is a universal attractive quality.0