I don't think I'm beautiful but I also don't think I'm too ugly to look at either. I've always been complimented by adults on my looks. My parent's friends/coworkers or strangers from church always tell me I'm pretty and nice. However, my girl friends don't say much about how I look, and most importantly, NO GUYS APPROACH ME. They don't even try to talk to me.
Perhaps I have a resting bitch face or something, but it seems like I scare guys away? I don't even know what I do. I know girls who have guys approach them so easily. And dare I say, they are average looking.
I don't think I'm particularly awful, personality wise, and I'm quite a reserved and a careful person. When I go out to social events at my uni my friends always get approached first. I'm a bit shy... but is it hard for a guy to just say hi to me?
I am 21 and I've never had a boyfriend... at this rate I probably will never get married... *sigh*
Most Helpful Guy
You being pretty is definitely not the issue but I think I might know what it is.
Let me tell you what happens from a guys perspective: Guys don't usually just approach girls randomly, or completely based on their looks. We are looking for signs that might show that you are interested too. I might try to make eye contact and smile and if the girl responds in a similar way or gives me "that look" where I can tell that she's into me then I'm gonna approach her. But If I just see some girl staring at the ground or minding her own business then why would I approach her?4
Most Helpful Girl
Most really attractive girls I know get approached a lot. You probably are pretty, but not as pretty as you think you are. Like a 7-8/10 at the most. Like a dime 9-10/10 will probably get approached no matter what, but you probably just don't smile or seem open. Also, are you overweight? Do you dress like a grandma? I just don't see a really hot girl not being approached by guys and being overlooked I'm sorry I dont think there is a such thing as being "too pretty to be approached"1