What is the longest you ever have dated or "seen" someone and not have the girlfriend/boyfriend title if so how long and how did it turn out in the end?
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I agree, the title girlfriend/boyfriend immediately makes rules appear. If you are able to pull off not creating a title, that would imo make a great relationship because you are not "forced to do things". My father actually has a friend of over 13 years that he does many things with...like drink tea together or watch movies everynight. Honestly, I think what you are looking for in this case would be called "companion". the companion is not necessarily someone in a relationship but it feels like it but without the boyfriend/girlfriend title. Companionship is being around someone that's borderline girlfriend/boyfriend but not necessarily saying it. Its extremely hard to pull this off tho because most people start wondering if the guy/girl would start dating others or what not. But I do agree that the title g/bf means nothing. I've had strong flirts with my friends and they have bfs. Trust me it means nothing. Personally I am in a predicament like this now but she has a boyfriend. I know we like each other but I'm not pushing him out the way but if you saw us in public you would think we are together...but no g/bf title! If she breaks up with him in the future and I'm single, then mayb ill try the companionship thing...however I know that it probably won't last because people "like " titles1