Why does he only want to hang out when he's drunk?

i met this guy a few months ago. he's cool and funny, but I do NOT understand him. he faithfully contacts me every weekend to see if I'm going out or what I'm doing, but he's never sober and I'm never drunk when we do hang out so it's semi-awkward.

i've mentioned time and time again, that we need to hang out sometime sober and he's always like "all right"...but whenever we plan something he flakes and it just doesn't happen. why is that? like...i thought he kinda liked me, but now I feel like he's just kind of using me..but for what, I don't know. I just want to be friends with him..but I don't know if I can be friends with someone who only hangs out with me drunkenly..what's his deal?

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  • A lot of people can only be spontaneous when drunk. Otherwise, they're just too inhibited to interact well. Sad, but true...