Should I be mad if my boyfriend goes to a strip club? Is it wrong If I tell him in the future I don't want him to go?
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While it is true that he has a right to go to a strip club, you also have a right to let him know that it bothers you, and ask him to please respect your feelings about it. As long as you are not hypocritical about it by doing things that you know bothers him, and you don't try to punish him for going before you let him know that it bothers you, then you shouldn't have any problems talking to him about it.
It is unlikely that your boyfriends wants to hurt you. He needs to know how you feel, so that he can avoid hurting you in the future. Also don't make it sound like you are forbidding him from going, because no one wants to be told what they are allowed to do. He needs to chose not to go on his own, you can't try to force that on him. If he decides to keep going, then you will need to figure out, if that is something you can live with.0