Is it weird that I haven't dated a guy at 21?

Why am I so worried about being in a relationship? I've never dated a guy before but I'm afraid a guy might think I'm weird that I'm so inexperienced.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not at all. I never dated until I was almost 22 and that kind of just came out of nowhere really. Don't let it bother you. Guys might be surprised if they find out you haven't dated but it seems like most like having the opportunity to teach her and give her more experience. They won't judge you on it is what I'm trying to say.

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What Guys Said 6

  • There are a lot of other ways to gain life experience than dating. There is nothing wrong with taking your time in life.

    And there are very few guys that will think of inexperience as a negative.

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  • No.

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  • I'm 21 too and I've never been in the relationship. I'm also a soldier and I don't consider myself a bad looking guy. I feel the same way though because girls usually like a more dominant/outgoing person and I'm neither of those. Guys love girls like you, the innocent/shy girl who they don't feel that they have to work ridiculously hard for or impress. They can just be themselves. I wouldn't worry if I were you being the girl in the matter.

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  • naw...you are just beginning to approach the main dating age...and, if you are patient for a couple more years...you might actually witness guys asking girls out! (:(:(:

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  • I find it vey attractive

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  • i'm 24 and in the same boat

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What Girls Said 5

  • im 22, 23 in April and I've only been on one date...im shy and don't really have guy friends I just go to school (no clubs/anything) and then I work and of course homework and exams keep me busy. I just want to get out of college and not have to worry about something bad happening and have my grades go down I'm so close to graduation (graduate this may) and after that id have more time to date and things so I wouldn't worry about it too much. just enjoy life and be yourself and work hard

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  • Well then, start! Because you'll turn 22 and you'll feel worse. It's not a bad thing, at all. But if you feel like this now, and you wait, you won't feel any better getting older and not experiencing it. There are many inexperienced people out there that are wayyy older than 21. :]

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  • never dated as in never been on a date or as in never been in a relationship?

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    • never been on a date or been in a relationship

  • not really considering how anti date and pro casual sex our generation is :/

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  • I don't think its all that weird, I know a guy who's 23 and hasn't dated anyone and another who's 24, you could always find someone who also hasn't dated anyone but I'm sure there's people out there would might find it cute/endearing that you haven't dated anyone.

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