I know love knows no boundaries, it has no leagues, however based off first impressions people are selective when choosing potential partners before any bond is formed. I want to know how to figure out what league I should be aiming for. I want to know if I am being too picky or if I just need to get up enough confidence to show my interest in men I consider to be a great catch. These men are people I admire and respect, they are confident, kind, caring people with a strong character and physical strength and disciplined body and personality. I want to be able to look up to my man. But these men in attracted to are very admired and chased by many and quite popular so I don't feel I have a chance.
I myself am hit on by all kinds of men from ones who would be considered a lower 5or 6 to those people would consider an 8 or 9 (personality and looks) Although it is less common for 9s and it is usually 8s and 7s that hit on me. Is there a way to tell? I'm told I'm beautiful and cute and have a good personality and make friends quickly and easily although in kind of distant with attractive and popular guys cause I dont think they will care for me and I dont want to get attached to them...
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Leagues don't technically exists. You need someone with common ground and you find attractive obviously but the whole league thing doesn't exist because peoples opinions really varies on attractiveness and what they find attractive. Now if you have a really overweight obese guy that is nice but is looking to date a fit or skinny girl something could be said there, there is no common ground there because obviously the girl takes care of herself and cares about health while the guy does not and let hinself go, its just not a proper match in my opinion, they live different lifestyles and the guy is going purely off attraction and that is not fair to said girl. Vise vera for guys.0