I think she is saying she wants a real relationship where each others happiness is the most important thing to both of you. Not just a friends with benefits or a fling but something deeper and long-term. The relationship is based on loving each other emotionally, mentally, and physically. Some guys don't want relationships like this but many do. Most guys want a relationship with connection/love and they want to feel loved and important to her. There are payers out there that don't have much feeling for anything but themselves. I think that is a pitiful minority however. Most guys really want more even if they don't know it.
I'd assume she meant one where there were feelings involved, and we hadn't put a box around where things might lead, and where the goal was good emotional intellectual and physical connection.
I would not assume it meant friendship first and slow development, if she meant that, I'd be running.
A relationship not based on sex/physical wants. Starts with a foundation based on friendship that way it can develop into an intimate relationship with substance.
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