She talks about herself for hours, and I don't mind it, but sometimes I have things to tell her too. She only says things like "oh that's too bad, or that's great!", and finds a way to talk about herself again. She tells me about everything! I know her friends (that I've never met)' families, their favorite colours, EVERYTHING! She barely knows my boyfriend, she doesn't even know (or remember) that he has a daughter! When I told her that I think he's cheating, she replied ":(". That's it!! I don't know what to do anymore. We've been friends since we were kids, and I really love her. But most of the times I feel like I'm her therapist not her friend. What should I do? Thank you!
have you tried gently sitting her down and telling her how you feel about this?
I would do it in a nice way but I wouldn't sugarcoat it and act like everything is fine. express lots of love but tell her the truth. and maybe offer practical things she could try?
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I had a friend like that so i told her what i thought nd if she continued on i would put my head phones in and make sure she could see xD
It's the worst, I had a friend like that, eventually you just stop hanging out with them...
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