Don't hound him and accuse him all the time -- this will make it sooo easy for him to just kick you to the curb.
Don't be a psycho who stalks through his things and hacks into his account or anything, but do be a girl (hey, it's what we do) and keep your eye on it. Occasionally. And without him knowing and without you accusing. It's best to save accusations and insecurities and worries(being general, not saying you're insecure) for when you have actual evidence.
I add people that say they met me at a party five years ago. It's Facebook. It's not his "top 5" or whatever those things are on his phone and stuff.
boyfriends and x girlfriend never mix...if you can't make him delete it...keep a close eye on it...also if you can get his pw to check up on his fb do that to...and does he have her number because if he does and he talks to her and you don't know that's like a step up from having her as a friend on fb...not saying that, that is just trying to cover all ground for you gd luck.
whats the issue?
he's friends with his ex on FB, so what?
its just a friend request
perhaps everything doesn't haven't to have a deeper inner meaning to everything?
what harm to your relationship could this possibly have...
So what? stop being so controlling this is no big deal, do you seriously check all of your boyfriends Facebook updates? I'd say you better stick with this guy cause acting like this isn't going to get you anyone else
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this is happening to me too right now, his ex-fling follows him now in Instagram and my boyfriend account is private, that means he accepted the request of this girl. So I checked the girls name at his following and she is there. he don't follow her back tho, since h keep denying that he accepted her and he said that she's been following him since the beginning which is a lie. I have a trust issue and I got so mad with the situation. Now I can feel that he is really piss and when he wake up he is going to thnk twice if he is going to be with me or not. this is sucks.
I agree with him, breaking up with someone doesn't mean you suddenly need to hate that person. Some exes really do remain friends, and besides that friending someone on Facebook doesn't mean much
Talk your boyfriend to clear this matter, whom he loves?
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