I know where you're coming from. I think that letting her know in a gentlemanly like way that you've moved on and would appreciate her not contacting you, would be a good idea. Keep it short and sweet. You don't want her to be a burden on your life anymore, if she is at all. Next time she texts or calls you just let her know your stance on this and that it's time to part ways.
Say something like, "Look, you broke up with me and that's fine. I've moved on but to me it seems like you haven't. When you break up, you move on to what's next in life, not linger around. I think it would be best if we don't talk. Nothing personal, Just need to keep things appropriate and myself focused. I hope you can understand." Something along the lines of that. Just be mature about it and she should respect that. She may get mad though, so brace yourself... if she continues to contact you after this, then just don't respond. She should get the message. Just close the deal man
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If you dumped her then what you did is right. Otherwise, you will feel like you want her again which wouldn't work out.
Its the same if she dumped you. So, when you brake up with someone you should always cut contacts mean off with that person right away.
My ex initiated the contact and so I repsponded then we kept in touch for a while. All of a sudden, he just disappeared and later on I found out that he's been getting back with his ex so I decided to cut him out of my life for good for my own peace of mind cos it's not worth it!
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You should just keep ignoring her for the rest of your life. It's not worth it.
She is just let her know where she stands
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