I was on and off with my ex boyfriend for nearly 2 years, and we broke up for good in March. Since then he's been acting so different towards me all the time; some days he's still "in love", some days we're friends, and some days he hates me. We were best friends before we started dating and we shared the same group of friends, which I can't even hang out with them now because he doesn't want me around.
Around May we discussed potentially getting back together, and we decided to try and take things slow under certain conditions. Within the next 24 hours he did every single thing he said he wouldn't do and so I broke things off and for a while after that he really hated me, started tweeting stupid things about me, and then blocked me on everything. (He just recently unblocked me).
Two weeks ago on my birthday he texted me and apologized for everything and said that he wants to be "civil". But now he's tweeting things about how he misses me and things along those lines. And a couple weeks ago my friend was talking to him about me because he was complaining and she said, "you know this was all your fault, right? You were such an ass to her." and he said, "I know it's my fault." and she asked if he was ever going to tell me that and he said he might eventually.
I'm just really confused as to how he actually feels about me. He acts so differently all the time and he still gets jealous when I talk or hook up with other people. At this point I don't know what to do or if I should try being his friend again.
So can anyone offer me any advice or anything? A guys perspective would probably help.
Around May we discussed potentially getting back together, and we decided to try and take things slow under certain conditions. Within the next 24 hours he did every single thing he said he wouldn't do and so I broke things off and for a while after that he really hated me, started tweeting stupid things about me, and then blocked me on everything. (He just recently unblocked me).
Two weeks ago on my birthday he texted me and apologized for everything and said that he wants to be "civil". But now he's tweeting things about how he misses me and things along those lines. And a couple weeks ago my friend was talking to him about me because he was complaining and she said, "you know this was all your fault, right? You were such an ass to her." and he said, "I know it's my fault." and she asked if he was ever going to tell me that and he said he might eventually.
I'm just really confused as to how he actually feels about me. He acts so differently all the time and he still gets jealous when I talk or hook up with other people. At this point I don't know what to do or if I should try being his friend again.
So can anyone offer me any advice or anything? A guys perspective would probably help.
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