I am quiet, shy guy who tries never to be arrogant especially around women. I have found that the humble approach really turns off a lot of girls. My less attractive guy friends who are cocky get a lot more attention from the opposite sex. Girls always say that they like confident (not arrogant) guys but they seem to really like guys have a ton of swagger. Does it make them feel more special if they win over an arrogant guy? Does a humble guy seem to easy to get?
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Sounds like your friends- the cocky, less attractive ones- are picking up girls in clubs, am I right? If that is the case, than here's the issue: you're trying to get with the wrong chicks. Honestly, every girl has an arrogant ass somewhere in her history, some dude from a club who talked the talk but when it really came down to it, fell short of something special. We usually end up with these types after a break up, a break down, or some kind of scene involving too much tequila. The truth is ultimately, the arrogant guys make you feel way less special. Hang in there.2