Is it wrong to flirt with multiple guys?

[Inkchild247]

Is it wrong to flirt with multiple guys?

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i am single and I don't want to lead anyone on I don't want to hurt people

[JustDance]

i know this girl that has a boyfriend for 8 years now, he treated her kinda bad but hey I guess that's how you keep girls in the bag these days, now he's super clingy and romantic All of a sudden and she's all happy with him now... long story short, the girl (who I had a thing for) flirted quite a lot with guy friends like me, and pretty much any guy who came in our group of friends. She locked arms with me while we walked places, went for coffee together and ate together, had some eye action going on etc... we got touchy even (light touching like tickling and whatnot in front of friends..) I kind of realized that she's an emotional cheater. needs the attention because she's either bored/tired of her relationship or not getting what she really wants... she still does it, but I just couldn't do it anymore, like be her close friend, and now we barely are friends because we don't even talk much anymore let alone hang out togehter anymore AND we see each other almost every day at the campus.

I think its wrong to flirt with multiple guys, while you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. If I was her boyfriend and saw that sh*t going on, I would have dumped her ass. because that's just way too much flirting even though its not harmful, emotionally its so bad.

If you are single and just looking to have fun, flirt with whomever until you found a guy/girl who you really are interested in and focus and him/her. Focus on that person more than anyone else, give him privileges, like hugs for example. Show that he's different with Your behavior.

Now if you just want to have fun and f*** whoever, flirt as much as you want and play the field. Its called a game for a reason. people win and people lose. Exploit that to your advantage even though people might get hurt, that's how people grow up. You're doing em a favor. So just do what you wanna do , do what feels right and enjoy life while you you're young.

[markml]

Sometimes.

It's wrong to flirt with multiple guys when you're already in a relationship, or are CLOSE to being in a relationship (i.e. you really have your eyes only on one guy but want back-ups).

It's wrong to flirt with a guy in such a way that you make him feel more special than he really is to you.

But, in general, there is nothing wrong with flirting with multiple guys. In fact, it's a good idea to be open minded.

Don't throw all your eggs in one basket if you don't have to. When you're single, it's a good idea to pursue multiple opportunities, because you don't know which one is really going to pan out. If you're genuinely interested in the guy, that's not leading him on.

And trying to find one single guy who is more worth pursuing than any other guy, seldom leads to good results. If you do have a situation where you're only interested in one guy, you have to be honest with yourself about it, but you shouldn't force that situation on yourself.

You're only leading a guy on if you're doing it just to be nice, or because it boosts your self-esteem, or you know that there's no way a relationship between you and him could ever work.

[Sporty4]

No its not wromg at all . As long as your not in a relationship and its only flirting and nothing further if your not in a relationship .l

[remember2forgetme]

Ask yourself, if I openly tell them that I am flirting with other guys, would it hurt them? If the answer is yes, then yes, it's wrong. But that usually only happens in advanced stages of flirting, when the guy feels especially close to you and has a perceived sense of exclusivity, so open communication is key. If you don't want to hurt anyone, be open and clear to them, from the beginning. If you're hiding something from them for the sake of not hurting them, you likely are playing a two-faced game, which is already hurting them.

[Brando]

Well assuming that you're leading them on, then no that's not cool. If you have a flirty personality, then there's not really a way around it so people will just have to learn to deal with it. But if you are consciously flirting with these two guys because you like to play that kind of game, then that's not really a good thing to be doing to people.

[myspacemybroke]

No, you're just flirting it's a socialization thing. If you're with a guy or taking it too far and leading a guy on, then yes it's wrong. If you're just playing around then it's all good.

[gtex1991]

nope nothing wrong with that, you free to do what you want, but if you have boyfriend you got to be careful because he might think something else

[jap88]

No, not really. Some guys may see it as "slutty," though not me personally.

[giffondh]

yes

[HouseMoat]

Very

[lovemaker]

it is not wrong