I've been talking to this girl for a couple weeks now. I met her at the beginning of the school year and one day she all of a sudden asked me if I was going to give her a flower at serenades and if I was going to take her to formal. I ended up doing both, but that was basically the first time that I had met the girl so it seemed weird.
We ended up going to formal and we had a lot of fun there, and we danced together pretty much the entire night. She kept asking if I was having fun and she kept saying she was the worst date ever because of various things that really didn't matter that much and didn't bother me.
She brought up that she felt really bad that over the past couple weeks I had pretty much invited her to something every weekend and she could never make it due to previous plans and that she really does want to go out. For example, me and some friends were going to see a movie and I decided to ask if she wanted to go. I called her and asked her but the minute I asked she started talking extremely fast and kept stumbling over her words. She wasn't sure if she could go though because she already had something that night so she had to call me back. She called back and said she couldn't make it, and she said that I must think she is the biggest loser in the world.
This past week I ran into her at the entrance to our dorm and her and her mom were carrying stuff up to her room and I offered to help carry it. She introduced me to her mom and said that she took me to formal. The mom left and when we got upstairs she said that I was the best for helping carry the stuff upstairs.
She had been talking about wanting to go see the new Harry Potter movie with some people. I decided to ask her if she wanted to go this friday. She finally responded a long time later that she had already promised to go see it with some friends when it came out in our local theaters.
At this point, I am sick and tired of inviting her to stuff if she can never make it, it makes me look like a desperate ass. I am also tired of her constantly declining invites for various reasons. Even if all her excuses are legit and she truly can't make it to anything, it's still ridiculous. I don't want to keep inviting her to stuff if she will decline it every time...so what should I do?
We ended up going to formal and we had a lot of fun there, and we danced together pretty much the entire night. She kept asking if I was having fun and she kept saying she was the worst date ever because of various things that really didn't matter that much and didn't bother me.
She brought up that she felt really bad that over the past couple weeks I had pretty much invited her to something every weekend and she could never make it due to previous plans and that she really does want to go out. For example, me and some friends were going to see a movie and I decided to ask if she wanted to go. I called her and asked her but the minute I asked she started talking extremely fast and kept stumbling over her words. She wasn't sure if she could go though because she already had something that night so she had to call me back. She called back and said she couldn't make it, and she said that I must think she is the biggest loser in the world.
This past week I ran into her at the entrance to our dorm and her and her mom were carrying stuff up to her room and I offered to help carry it. She introduced me to her mom and said that she took me to formal. The mom left and when we got upstairs she said that I was the best for helping carry the stuff upstairs.
She had been talking about wanting to go see the new Harry Potter movie with some people. I decided to ask her if she wanted to go this friday. She finally responded a long time later that she had already promised to go see it with some friends when it came out in our local theaters.
At this point, I am sick and tired of inviting her to stuff if she can never make it, it makes me look like a desperate ass. I am also tired of her constantly declining invites for various reasons. Even if all her excuses are legit and she truly can't make it to anything, it's still ridiculous. I don't want to keep inviting her to stuff if she will decline it every time...so what should I do?
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At formal, aster hearing about parties other people had, she asked why she never got invites to date parties from me. I said I had invited her to a lot but we she could never make it. She seemed like she was trying to put me on the spot so what gives?
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