First of all, you aren't alone, I believe a lot of guys will continue to try and have a hard time letting go. Because you continued to try IS NOT the reason things are the way they are. She was acting unsure and thinking about taking a break and/or breaking up before you did anything that you feel is pushing her away. I really don't have any advice on getting her back sorry. In these kind of situations I feel the best thing to do is just let her have her space and try to keep your mind off of her, even though I know it is difficult (try taking up a new hobby or something, I usually will go work out or run.) I am a true believer that breaks in a relationship are bad, once they happen once they will continue to happen down the road. I know its probably not what you wanted to hear, but I hope this helps. I am serious about the first half though! Oh one last thing, if you do get her back the relationship will be odd and untrusting. You will always be thinking if she is happy and whether or not she is thinking about doing it again. Take a month or so break from girls and then go find another! There are hundreds of beautiful girls out there, I am 100% sure there is another one out there for you, a better one! Even though you probably don't believe me right now, you will see.
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This is happening to me to. I did everything to get her back. Flowers texting bagged. It pushed her to someone else... the truth is us being. Like this made them look at us like we was week... That's not attractive... they will go through test there rebound and if they have time away from u. They will contact u when they brake up... only thing u can do is find someone else... they will find that attractive... it's up to u to take her back when this happens... hang in there but don't wait for her... u will know when she's back... just forget right now... best thing to do
From a girls perspective, if my boyfriend did what you did and drove 2 hours to see me I would be touched and see that he did really care. You didn't do anything wrong. It seems like this girl can't make up her mind. You did your part by showing her how much she meant to you and now its all on her to make up her mind. I say give her time and leave her alone but tell her how much she means to you and how you will let her think about it. Just know that as a guy you tried and if she doesn't want you anymore its her loss.
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You haven't pushed her away... instead you've shown her that you care for her... well if I was in the situation... I wouldn't make any sudden moves... just be there for her.. show her that you're the loving and kind man that will stand by her side regardless. Perseverance would be the key. Yet don't seem too desperate, but be confident on your decision... and then let her decide... if you made the right moves then she will be drawn to you. God Bless. =)
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