Anyway, he talks really easily to my other co-workers and will joke around with the other girls. But when it comes to me, we don't really talk. We'll talk when I ask him how his weekend was and what not but as soon as he answers the conversation dies. He also is a shy guy but like I said, he will joke around with my other co-workers. With the other workers that have been there for a while, he talks really easily with them. With the workers that were hired with me, he's still hesitant around them but he will joke around with them. However when it comes to me, silence. The other day it was just the two of us for the first two hours, and we didn't talk a whole lot. It was more just standing around waiting for customers. I know that sometimes a guy will be quiet around the girl he likes. But maybe he just doesn't really like me and therefore doesn't talk?
The following things I have a feeling are just me making something out of nothing because I want him to like me, but maybe I'm wrong...
-He has a lot of places he can stand within the cashiering area, but he tends to stand behind me a lot.
-I can feel him watching me and when I turn to look around just to see if he really is looking at me, I can see out of the corner of my eye that he is.
-I have a feeling he's just been doing this one because he is in charge of the other cashiers, but when a customer isn't understanding something, he'll stop what he's doing and listen to the conversation. He won't butt in or cut me off, even if I am catching a tone with the customer or not doing something for the customer I know fully well I can do but won't because they're being rude. I know his reason for not stepping in is because we have the same mindset when it comes to difficult customers and returns without tags/receipts.
-When he's on the register next to mine, he tends to kind of invade my personal space. If he's helping another cashier that's standing next to me, he's usually standing next to me while helping instead of on the other side, even if it means he's facing away from the customer. I've caught us standing very close together and neither of us moving.
-We've had accidental/"accidental" bumps. Our hands hooked around each others' one time and he didn't say anything but he didn't look at me either. Just acted like it didn't happen.
-I'll catch him laughing at something funny I'm saying when I don't even think he's listening.
*I'll continue this in "update'*
-If someone is joking around with me, he'll come into the conversation and add his own jokes in. Even if he was off doing something else.
-I can sense "tension" between us but not bad tension. Just the kind of tension when you sense there's chemistry. But it could be just me and I know that.
-Sometimes he'll speak softer to me than he does with anyone else.
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