We haven't met, been getting to know each other the past 3 months, flirting with each other over text and phone, etc.
However, she seemed off last week, conversation went:
me - Wouldn't mind getting to know you more :-) x
her - What do you want to know x
me - Wondering when you are free at the weekend for me to call you? x
her - Got a pretty busy weekend to be fair like I don't know if I'll have time! x
me - It's alright I get the hint, I guess that offer of taking you out will have to go to somebody else x
her - I just feel a bit weird about talking to someone on the phone and stuff that I've never met or seen, sorry if you think that is weird x
me - was suggesting we could meet soon, but if that's what you really want... x
her - Meeting a randomer though.. It's like, I dunno. x
me - if it's because you like someone else then do that, at least you'll be happier. I'm alright meeting up but if you aren't then I can't force it.. You seem to have your mind made up x
her - No its not that. But I have a very over protective best friend who seems to think you're going to kidnap me and keep me in your basement x
me - Haha, sense of humour too! I wouldn't risk my future like that for the sake of a girl, but if its something you're not comfortable with, not much I can do.. I'd want you to be safe x
her - And I do want to see ya but want to make my friend happy and prove it's legit first x
I don't reply until early afternoon the next day..
me - I'd only consider meeting you if it was a public place and you brought a mate along x
Then she doesn't reply.
Late that night I decide to unfollow some people on Twitter on my phone and unfollow her without realising I had done, she sends me a text about it (somehow ignoring my earlier one). She also somehow realizes I unfollowed her so she could have been on my profile?
her - Unfollowing me, mature
me - was unfollowing some people on my phone, must have clicked yours accidentally x"
her - I doubt that very much
me - It wasn't intentional
her - I'ma bust yo assss
me - You wish
her - Stop being grumpy with me or I'll have to..
me - ... 'accidentally' unfollow me!
her - We going to keep arguing then yeah?
me - Unless you have it in your heart to forgive me
her - Sarcastic
me - Shouldn't you be in bed?
her - I'm older than you, so if I should be in bed you should definitely be asleep
me - Not thinking of grassing me up are you?
her - I won't tell if you don't
me - Be our little secret
Happened until 2am (my last reply was 9am as I fell asleep)
So, I have no idea what she wants or if she is making excuses to not meet up or is scared to, but I decided to back off and not act as interested, or at least not give as much attention. Not sure what to do now.. I feel like leaving it a week to see if she decides to make contact, or send her a text teasing her about the twitter thing? Why does she tell me she finds it weird talking to someone she hasn't met, yet reacts playfully towards the end?
However, she seemed off last week, conversation went:
me - Wouldn't mind getting to know you more :-) x
her - What do you want to know x
me - Wondering when you are free at the weekend for me to call you? x
her - Got a pretty busy weekend to be fair like I don't know if I'll have time! x
me - It's alright I get the hint, I guess that offer of taking you out will have to go to somebody else x
her - I just feel a bit weird about talking to someone on the phone and stuff that I've never met or seen, sorry if you think that is weird x
me - was suggesting we could meet soon, but if that's what you really want... x
her - Meeting a randomer though.. It's like, I dunno. x
me - if it's because you like someone else then do that, at least you'll be happier. I'm alright meeting up but if you aren't then I can't force it.. You seem to have your mind made up x
her - No its not that. But I have a very over protective best friend who seems to think you're going to kidnap me and keep me in your basement x
me - Haha, sense of humour too! I wouldn't risk my future like that for the sake of a girl, but if its something you're not comfortable with, not much I can do.. I'd want you to be safe x
her - And I do want to see ya but want to make my friend happy and prove it's legit first x
I don't reply until early afternoon the next day..
me - I'd only consider meeting you if it was a public place and you brought a mate along x
Then she doesn't reply.
Late that night I decide to unfollow some people on Twitter on my phone and unfollow her without realising I had done, she sends me a text about it (somehow ignoring my earlier one). She also somehow realizes I unfollowed her so she could have been on my profile?
her - Unfollowing me, mature
me - was unfollowing some people on my phone, must have clicked yours accidentally x"
her - I doubt that very much
me - It wasn't intentional
her - I'ma bust yo assss
me - You wish
her - Stop being grumpy with me or I'll have to..
me - ... 'accidentally' unfollow me!
her - We going to keep arguing then yeah?
me - Unless you have it in your heart to forgive me
her - Sarcastic
me - Shouldn't you be in bed?
her - I'm older than you, so if I should be in bed you should definitely be asleep
me - Not thinking of grassing me up are you?
her - I won't tell if you don't
me - Be our little secret
Happened until 2am (my last reply was 9am as I fell asleep)
So, I have no idea what she wants or if she is making excuses to not meet up or is scared to, but I decided to back off and not act as interested, or at least not give as much attention. Not sure what to do now.. I feel like leaving it a week to see if she decides to make contact, or send her a text teasing her about the twitter thing? Why does she tell me she finds it weird talking to someone she hasn't met, yet reacts playfully towards the end?
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There's definitely a few things I could have avoided saying by the way, although I was confused myself
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