Just ignore her. She will start to wonder what is wrong and you will become one of the main things on her mind, whether she likes you romantically or not.
C because the first two answers are ways to hurt her and make her think that you are not interested. I would not like to be treated like that, so I wouldn't miss a guy who did that. If your around she can see how great you are ( if you are great) =p
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well this is what happened with me: there was this guy who really liked me and he would always talk to me, and I would talk to him but I ignored him a few times because I didn't realize I liked him. Then he started ignoring me and I couldn't stand that so I went back and tried to make him re-interested. I'd say whenever you act really nice to a girl and then all of a sudden stop she feels confused.
I have a female friend who we have been talking about 6 months now and we would call each other so many times a day (I counted 20 times) that we ran out of stuff to talk about.. So we cooled off for about 6 days or so and she called back first telling how it felt like it's been forever since we last talked.
Go for Letter A..IGnore hehe he's online and I'm online too but were not talking to each other hahaha well its not my fault anyway he dump me 3x so I guess its better to ignore him than to talk.
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when I like a guy and were txting and then all of a sudden he stops, it drives me crazy and makes me think that he's not into me anymore but then when he texts me like a day later being all flirty it feels amazing :)
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I saw A and C.
I would never ever ever want a guy to do number B, that's just sad and mean. And make me hate you, not miss you.
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well good, that's what I've been doing for the last week, so hopefully it will work, but she is kinda seeing another guy I think, which isn't a big deal, cause she said we just want to be friends but I kinda feel she is ignoring me for him, and if we are suppose to be friends, she really isn't treating me very nice, its like when she comes over we flirt, I tickle her give her foot/leg massages, we make eye contact and we smile, and she randomly texted if I hd ever had a girlfriend in hs or in college so far
don't go out with other girls. just flirt with them.
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why not? she said she just wants to be friends anyway, I'm not planning on asking any girls out anyway, but why not? I'm just her friend, and its hard cause I only get to see her like 2 times a week so I can't really flirt with any other girls to see how she reacts
because if you date another girl, then she'll probably start to believe that she just has no chance with you again. but if you're just flirting with other girls then she'll think that there is a chance. and if you don't see her that often, you can talk about other girls to her. but not like too much.
Ha, the first one will get you a girl that's uninterested and already moved on.
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when she has too go or you have too go say something like 'dont miss me too much;)' ..then she will;) well that happens with me.. and don't not text her back/dont text her.. it'll just break her heart and you don't wanna do that:) just double the time you reply and sometimes do less kisses if you do any or do none:) xo
I miss it when I really like a guy and he stops hanging out with me because he's "busy." :(
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I know girls do the same blowoff technique by saying their "busy". It sucks because if they don't wanna be around me then tell me! so I can move on lol
Ugh! I hate being led on more than being lied to, cheated on, and dumped combined. That is my biggest pet peeve. I hate it when he isn't brave enough to tell me. They just don't value our time. :-/
If I really like a guy, I will miss him every moment I'm not with him. there's not really something he does. Just be fun and don't act like an obsessed stalker.
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personally I am going to try staying off fb for a while and see ignoring would be stupid..
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Just wait 2-3 days every time before you establish contact.
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Just ignore her. She will start to wonder what is wrong and you will become one of the main things on her mind, whether she likes you romantically or not.
C because the first two answers are ways to hurt her and make her think that you are not interested. I would not like to be treated like that, so I wouldn't miss a guy who did that. If your around she can see how great you are ( if you are great) =p
well this is what happened with me: there was this guy who really liked me and he would always talk to me, and I would talk to him but I ignored him a few times because I didn't realize I liked him. Then he started ignoring me and I couldn't stand that so I went back and tried to make him re-interested. I'd say whenever you act really nice to a girl and then all of a sudden stop she feels confused.
Just let her know your life is going on perfectly fine without seeming as if you are trying to deliberately convey that message.
Don't call her, text her, or Facebook her. Go to the gym, work on the way you look, go out and have fun.
Chances are she'll see that you're not that eaten up over her and that she can't manipulate you.
I have a female friend who we have been talking about 6 months now and we would call each other so many times a day (I counted 20 times) that we ran out of stuff to talk about.. So we cooled off for about 6 days or so and she called back first telling how it felt like it's been forever since we last talked.
if we don't see him for awhile, if he talks (not too flirty though) with other girls, if we like him in the first place. it's different for everyone.
Go for Letter A..IGnore hehe he's online and I'm online too but were not talking to each other hahaha well its not my fault anyway he dump me 3x so I guess its better to ignore him than to talk.
when I like a guy and were txting and then all of a sudden he stops, it drives me crazy and makes me think that he's not into me anymore but then when he texts me like a day later being all flirty it feels amazing :)
I saw A and C.
I would never ever ever want a guy to do number B, that's just sad and mean. And make me hate you, not miss you.
well good, that's what I've been doing for the last week, so hopefully it will work, but she is kinda seeing another guy I think, which isn't a big deal, cause she said we just want to be friends but I kinda feel she is ignoring me for him, and if we are suppose to be friends, she really isn't treating me very nice, its like when she comes over we flirt, I tickle her give her foot/leg massages, we make eye contact and we smile, and she randomly texted if I hd ever had a girlfriend in hs or in college so far
don't go out with other girls. just flirt with them.
why not? she said she just wants to be friends anyway, I'm not planning on asking any girls out anyway, but why not? I'm just her friend, and its hard cause I only get to see her like 2 times a week so I can't really flirt with any other girls to see how she reacts
because if you date another girl, then she'll probably start to believe that she just has no chance with you again. but if you're just flirting with other girls then she'll think that there is a chance. and if you don't see her that often, you can talk about other girls to her. but not like too much.
I always miss my boyfriend, but that's just because we're FORCED to be apart Mon-Thurs. Moving sucks.
Ha, the first one will get you a girl that's uninterested and already moved on.
when she has too go or you have too go say something like 'dont miss me too much;)' ..then she will;) well that happens with me.. and don't not text her back/dont text her.. it'll just break her heart and you don't wanna do that:) just double the time you reply and sometimes do less kisses if you do any or do none:) xo
If you're friends with her then suddenly ignores her, that will definitely make her miss you...
The ignoring part rings a bell..but it's not always wise because if you really like her those feelings of her feeling reject might make her move on.
Make her fall in love with you..
Do sweet things, that will get her thinking.. don't treat her bad, like ignore her and stuff... trust me, that's a big mistake. :)
BEST OF LUCK!
I miss it when I really like a guy and he stops hanging out with me because he's "busy." :(
I know girls do the same blowoff technique by saying their "busy". It sucks because if they don't wanna be around me then tell me! so I can move on lol
Exactly! Wouldn't life just be so much easier that way? :(
Yep! I know people are trying to not hurt our feelings but they need to realize they're stringing us along instead.
Ugh! I hate being led on more than being lied to, cheated on, and dumped combined. That is my biggest pet peeve. I hate it when he isn't brave enough to tell me. They just don't value our time. :-/
Yeah! It sucks so bad, epsecially since you keep caring about them until they give you a definite no! And its like months later!
Sometimes even after that I have a hard time getting over him. That bugs me to death. -_- That is so annoying.
If I really like a guy, I will miss him every moment I'm not with him. there's not really something he does. Just be fun and don't act like an obsessed stalker.
personally I am going to try staying off fb for a while and see ignoring would be stupid..
Just wait 2-3 days every time before you establish contact.