So please explain me what do you actually mean by protected or secured.
Girls, when you say , "i feel protected" or "I feel secured" with a guy what do you actually mean?
So please explain me what do you actually mean by protected or secured.
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I guess I'm physically a little more safe when I'm with any second person and especially a bigger/stronger person than I am all by myself. But if I say I feel safe with a guy, what I mean is he makes me comfortable, I trust him, I know _he_ isn't going to hurt me, I find it soothing to just be wrapped up in his arms. I don't think he can replace the local police or my own street smarts, and I certainly don't imagine he can protect me from car crashes or terminal illness, but if I do have to face one of those things, it feels safe to know he's got my back and that we're in this together. That's what _I_ mean.
This make sense. Thank you for a nice explanation.
Me and this person have been friends for around like a year now and every time he says I love you or says your my little sister no one can every harm you or hurt you or get to you I feel like I'm safe when he's with me I mean I don't know how to explain it but it's just that feeling like even if I lost every one I won't loose him he's always there for me to fall on and he's my shoulder when I need to cry and that's what I mean when I say I feel safe I feel safe cause he's there even though sometimes he can't even do anything but still
And also like I feel like I can trust them with anything and I feel like I can actually be my self and they won't judge me
feeling safe doesn't necessarily mean "oh he can protect me from people". but that i feel like i can be myself, no bullshit involved and its like when im with him its effortless ;we flow. I feel like i can make a big full of myself , he may laugh but i won't be judged like " Dumb bitch". Plus on a biological part women are programmed to feel like they can be protected physically by their man even if they can do it themselves
I can protect myself from insults/judgement. When a woman says she feels protected, safe and secure with a man, she means exactly what she is saying. We know that he may not be able to protect us 100%, but we know he will try his best. It means we trust him and we know he has our back... and/or front.
For me, it's just the fact that my boyfriend expresses a concern for my wellbeing that makes me feel safe. He's a very slim guy and I think I may have more muscle structure than him, but since he cares about my safety, I can trust him to try and keep me safe if I'm ever in danger. If a guy doesn't give two shits about whether or not you're okay, you won't feel safe around him because you won't trust him.
Even if I am targeted by a killer, knowing that I have him is comforting and eases the a fear a bit.
If someone puts me down, I know I have him who thinks great of me.
He won't leave me.
He will support me.
Simply, the loyalty and trust in him makes me feel safe and secured.
You make them feel comfortable and at home :) it's definitely a compliment and a good thing. You make them feel like that feeling when you hug a blanket fresh out of the dryer :)
It can be a physical or emotional thing. For me it means the world melts away when you hold me.
It means she feels safe and that she trusts you. She feels comfortable being herself when you're with her.
it just means they feel safe with you, like physically safe. you are home. its a compliment
You feel at ease. Home is in his arms.
To feel safe in hus arms, protected
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