All of these things and more, literally anything that I've ever done for any love interest which offered any indication that I cared the slightest bit about her or about anything that she had to say, has been cited by that girl as me being "too nice", and used to justify rejecting me and breaking up with me. So why is that? Why does it seem to be an instant turn-off for any girl whenever she realizes that a guy genuinely cares about her as a person?
Why does it seem like I'd have to become a total jerk, an asshole and a womanizing player for any girl to remain attracted to me, and to acknowledge me as a "real man" with all of the others? And is there any other way to get these girls to stop universally rejecting me and emasculating me for being "too nice"?
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