Do you think I'm a player?

[Anonymous]

People call me player a lot and say I use girls for one thing, but I don't.

Girls approach me a lot when I'm in class or walking towards my dorm.
We end up talking and I end up getting their number..
How can someone get mad at me for having a bunch of girls numbers in my phone?
What am I supposed to do deny them my phone number? I'm not in a relationship but people want to act like they have the right to decide who's on my phone..

I'm not gonna lie , I'm in college, I'm single , I'm young so yes I've done things.. I've slept with a few of them but when I get their number that's not the intention.

I didn't know how clingy and possessive college girls can be when you're not even in a relationship with them.
I enjoy female company but just because I have girls over doesn't mean were going to fuck some of them literally come over and study
I know that sounds like a lie but I'm serious a couple of them have came over and studied with me.

Some of them come over just to hang out,
& Some do come over for sex but how does that make me the player?
The girl who called me a player is the girl who likes me but I can't be with her I'm too young to be committed.
Do I sound like a player to you?

Yes you're a player

You're not a player

Results

[oboeyoudidnt]

Yes, you do sound like a player.
The girl probably called you a player because she's offended you don't want to be committed to her. Typically someone who has a bunch of girls numbers, sleeps with them, then refuses to commit is a player.

This isn't a bad thing though, you do you. As long as you don't acquire diseases lol

[Asker]

Yeah I slept with her but it was just casual I don't see why she's so devastated

[oboeyoudidnt]

Because not everyone sees sex as casual. Did you tell her you didn't want a relationship before you slept with her?
If not, there's your problem

[Asker]

to be honest when i slept with her i didn't even know her last name
now i know practically everything about her but back then i didn't even know her last name
that should be a sign...

[oboeyoudidnt]

It should be, but tbh girls can be stupid emotional creatures. If you don't want drama, make this clear

[darkdreams]

I'm really confused by these responses... You sound like a single guy not a player 😂😂 Just because you aren't ready to commit and settle down with one person doesn't make you a bad guy or a "player"

[Asker]

Thanks lol

[jstar11]

not so subtle brag. if you have to tell everyone you're something, then you're clearly not

[Asker]

I'm anonymous.. How am I bragging

[BertMacklinFBI]

nah dude you're just doing you.

[Asker]

Thanks man for understanding

[BertMacklinFBI]

can't blame a guy for just chillin and taking what comes by

[Wontstop]

this just sounds like a brag lol
your an idiot

[Asker]

Um ok...

[emmaqueenlu]

yes
jk