Long story short: I work with this shy guy, never really looked twice at him for months until I heard managers joking about how quiet he always was. Slowly got interested, asked for his number, and we hung out. Communication went to shit and we stopped texting, and slowly reverted back into not really interacting with each other at work. We are both very shy, and he doesn't go to school dances because apparently he 'is too embarassed to do that in front of anyone.' I stalked him on social media, and he has a Twitter and Instagram, but doesn't use either and has like 14-20 followers on both. He has exhibited weird behaviors, like taking the trash out and then walking all the way around to the front of the store just so he doesn't have to set off an alarm that automatically goes off when you bring the trash bin back in. Once, I was standing next to one of our managers, who's a pretty big lady, and he chose to squeeze past her in between her, and the edge of the wall where there was like an inch of space, when he could have passed me without as much work. He also tends to avoid eye contact, and doesn't smile very often. A lot of our coworkers and managers joke about how we should date, and would be a perfect couple. once, one of his friends yelled through the whole store that we should hook up, and when he passed me later I could see him looking at me out of the corner of his eye. It seems like he can talk to other people fairly easily, but when I talk to him it almost seems like he has a mental disability by how he tends to pause, as though he can't process that I'm talking to him. Obviously that's not true, but you get the simile. overall he is really confusing, and I've heard he's never had a girlfriend, or even talks to girls. He is like barely 5'5, skinny, no muscles, and some acne. His behavior is extremely confusing, and I've lost all hope that he could like me in return.
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A lot of our managers and coworkers constantly point out his shyness, and sort of make fun of it. When he took the trash out and came back in, one of them was like, "why can't you look me in the eye like a normal person, and tell me you're done with the trash?"
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