As a picky girl who has been in similar situations, I can say that it doesn't seem like he likes you. If he likes you, you know. He initiates. He is always happy to see you, and after nine months he probably would've made a move. I was in a similar situation where I thought that a guy really liked me. He always treated me better and always seemed to like me but the tell tale signs that he didn't like me were a) I was putting in more effort into this than he was b) he never initiated.
You say that you ask him questions people don't normally ask him. Is that a two way street? Does he pay attention to you if he's tired? If no then probably he just has a flirty personality.
Of course you can always ask him out anyway (and it can be totally noncommittal like coffee or study party or whatever) but from what I read it doesn't seem like he likes you.
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Truthfully, if a guy is interested in you you will definitely know it. There shouldn't be any question. He might just have a flirty personality
Every second you wait for someone else to make a move, is a second wasted.
So if you've wasted 9 months, who's really to blame?
If you like him, make a move before someone else does, get me?
Don't expect a leprechaun to appear by magic and make him your boyfriend.
You know... he could be thinking the exact same thing!
And if he doesn't figure you're interested, he's gonna hook up with someone else eventually.
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