Two good answers below
> checking up on you
> paranoid (ESPECIALLY when he tries to pin that on you)
... with those two ideal reasons, I view these as a recipe for yet another more sinister one = he was with another gal and... afraid of being caught... needed to know EXACTLY where you were... like putting a bell on the cat so the mice at play can be alerted when it draws near
In any case, it's time to NOT care so much about someone so self centered... he is not practicing love, he's practicing possessiveness and sneaking around (with lame excuses + coverup finger pointing)
They say when you point a finger at another, you have 3 fingers pointing back at you
PLEASE
report back WHEN you uncover his covert reasons for disturbing... ALL of us
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He sounds very paranoid to me. I think he calls you to check up on you. He wants to make sure you're not surrounded by noise when he calls. I know from past experience, my ex's used to do the same thing. Usually guys that are paranoid are the one's that are being deceitful. The fact that you went over there and he didn't answer, also makes me think that he either had company or he wasn't home.
he was just checking whether you're sleeping or you're with somebody else. It's a classic trick of boyfriend, just want to make sure his girlfriend is safe and just to make he feels satisfied that you're alone (not cheating on him). then he went to sleep. that's all.
1:30 am? maybe he just fell asleep.. or was drunk? I get that you care a lot about him, but what you just described is veeery paranoid behaviour :D
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maybe this time he wanna break up
he was just thinking about you.
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