Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, and things are fine in the relationship apart from the fact he has double standards.
e. g I've blocked and don't contact any of my exs, I don't like their pictures, talk to them, etc & if I do, he'd get very mad and upset.
On the other hand, he's able to do whatever he wants e. g last night his crazy ex girlfriend started to follow him on different social media sites and like his pictures and he did the same back and I noticed it and brought it up and he said that they were only friends... I wouldn't dare do anything like this because I respect my boyfriends feelings and I think it's disrespectful, but my boyfriend clearly doesn't seem to care.
I don't know what to do about his ex who's trying to get back in the picture again (she was very controlling and jealous etc), and it upsets me that he's falling into her stupid games and is liking her things back, so to say he's showing interest in her.
I obviously got upset and told him how I don't do that sort of thing as I respect his feelings and I don't feel the need to keep in contact with my exs, but he somehow feels that it's ok if he does it.
All he said was that he'd block her (he hasnt) and basically made out I was making a big deal out of nothing. I feel very hurt and disrespected, and I don't know what to do.
After that conversation (last night) I know for a fact he's going to ignore me because of it, like its my fault somehow. I just wish he saw it from my point of view. I hate how he has one rule for him, and another for me. I need some advice :(
e. g I've blocked and don't contact any of my exs, I don't like their pictures, talk to them, etc & if I do, he'd get very mad and upset.
On the other hand, he's able to do whatever he wants e. g last night his crazy ex girlfriend started to follow him on different social media sites and like his pictures and he did the same back and I noticed it and brought it up and he said that they were only friends... I wouldn't dare do anything like this because I respect my boyfriends feelings and I think it's disrespectful, but my boyfriend clearly doesn't seem to care.
I don't know what to do about his ex who's trying to get back in the picture again (she was very controlling and jealous etc), and it upsets me that he's falling into her stupid games and is liking her things back, so to say he's showing interest in her.
I obviously got upset and told him how I don't do that sort of thing as I respect his feelings and I don't feel the need to keep in contact with my exs, but he somehow feels that it's ok if he does it.
All he said was that he'd block her (he hasnt) and basically made out I was making a big deal out of nothing. I feel very hurt and disrespected, and I don't know what to do.
After that conversation (last night) I know for a fact he's going to ignore me because of it, like its my fault somehow. I just wish he saw it from my point of view. I hate how he has one rule for him, and another for me. I need some advice :(
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