Be careful please! :-) I know every woman loves to be cared for and be protected, which is fine, but some questions he asks are not reallyyy ok like how many guys you've been with... why would he want to know that? There is no protectiveness about that but a controlling element... the same goes with: stay close to me, or stand here etc etc etc... it's all good if he wants to show you he cares, but make sure he doesn't gain control over what you do or what you think you have to say in order for him not to become jealous etc etc etc... been in a similar relationship with someone and you do really get blindsighted by their 'devotion' and 'care' towards you, until you realise you can't do anything by yourself anymore without the guy bumming in! :-) all great and good just be careful of these overprotective traits :-)
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It sounds to me that he has a little crush on you - do you like him?
The last part sounds like he likes you but for the first part. He was being a good freind. I'm pretty protective of my female freind, usually be cause they are so naive. We don't live in the best place yet they foolishly feel safe all the time. I'm thankful that nothing has happened but their freind and my exfreind has lead us to very bad parts of town and none of them had anything to protect themselves with. After that I bought a tazer just in case but still. I worry that they might get hurt sometimes.
I'm very protective of my girlfriends. I try not to step on their toes if they are fighting their own battles about something, but I take physical safety VERY seriously.
How would you not be protective of someone you have feelings for? If she got hurt and I could have prevented it, I'd feel terrible!
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Cause that's an instinct. We are protectors and you are baby makers. The same reason 10 guys appear out of nowhere when a women's car breaks down. It's not that they all want to fucker her, it's just something men are doing without realizing it
well male friends in general are protective of each other. in college my buddy got in a fight at a bar and the six of us stood up to make sure the other guys group doesn't jump in. its just the way men are. were are the keepers of the light and the guardians in the light.
As a guy, I believe that our most basic instinct is to protect people we care about. But we do that differently when it comes to guys vs girls. I think that guys are protective of their girl friends because its simply human nature.
Many men are wired to be that protective force around the fairer sex, whether it be a lover, family member, friend, or even a woman we don't even know.
That protective trait flares out around any woman and child said guy is around.It is in our primal beings to be protective of a woman we love as a lover or friend. It is kind of a way of showing we care.
He either likes you or sees you as a little sister.
We are naturally protective of women, as they are far more vulnerable. Protectiveness = Love
He likes you or at least cares a lot about you, most of the guys are protecting things they like, it's natural :-)
because he cares. he does seem more like boyfriend protective though. are you sure he's not into you?
answer the question yourself its right in your face butt head
He wants you to be safe and happy 😊😊and have you asked this question before?
Because he loves you and you are his queen on a pedestal! 😄
It's a complete mystery, isn't it? LOL
Jealous controling , doesn't wanna lose what he has.
He likes you end of story
Seems like he genuinely cares for you.
He likes you , even a child could see that
he likes you.
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