Can I ask a guy if he's still interested in me even though we kinda stopped dating?

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I just wanna know, I'm so into this guy but everything seems to go wrong or come out wrong...I just can't really open up and he did a little (also asked me out, but the dates went not well, I behaved just weirdly because I was so nervous) but then stopped (maybe because I didn't respond well, maybe he lost interest...I just dunno).

He almost never calls me, when we talk though he listens and offers advice like a really good friend. Still I want us to be more than just friends...can I just talk to him about that? I just want to know.

I mean we stopped dating obviously, but like I said the dates (two) didn't go well...I somehow want a second-chance but only if I have a chance with him at all...kinda like asking if we're still dating.

Is asking a naive way to go about this?
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Nnok, I didn't make my point today but at least I could show a little more emotion...small step for anymore, big step for me (^^;) He was kinda confused at first but took it overall quite well I guess as he also opened up a little bit.
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But I'm still don't know if he is still interested or not - time will tell, but I'm happy that I managed to "vent" a little (in a positive way ;)
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Until now he hasn't called or texted me yet...I have not called him yet again because he's busy but also because I want to know if he'll call me within a week...I have the feeling that it will take him at least a week...we'll see.
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It's been a week now...he hasn't called. =P This sucks.
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Took him, what, 10 days or more to call me...now what does that mean? Nothing too good I guess.
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I missed his call two times, so I called him back and he told me that he wanted to meet me again and that he would call me next week to set up a date...we'll see if he keeps that promise.
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He actually ask me out again and it went really well, I hope to see him next weekend again. So sad that he has to work so much.
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He has to work this weekend, I don't mind, but it doesn't feel right. I guess, even if he is interested it's just not working out like this.
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We went out two more times, also to the cinema. It was really great and he wants to meet me again - actually he also wanted to meet me last weekend but I was sick ;(, but this weekend we'll meet again if only for a few hours.
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I don't know what happened, but somehow he seems to have changed his mind. He still has to work a lot, but tries to make time for us, because otherwise we wouldn't be seeing us for weeks and apparently he doesn't want that. I guess he must be interested.
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We've been talking daily now for the last couple of weeks, he sometimes calls me even twice a day. We still can only see us on weekends, nonetheless we've become really close. Yesterday I asked him if we are a couple now and he said yes. Thanks everyone!
Can I ask a guy if he's still interested in me even though we kinda stopped dating?
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