I have a guy friend I guess you could say that does this all the time! It drives me nuts! During the summer we would talk every day and then we just sort of stopped but still texted pretty often and eventually we justnever talked anymore. Except every now and then (like ever 2 months or so) he would just text me and be like Hey what's up? I would just answer causually with "Hey stranger, I haven't heard from you in a while how have you been?" and then it would justconsist of a few more texts after that and I wouldn't hear from him for months again. We did sort of have a secret relationship over the summer so I think that maybe he texts me when he doesn't have any other girls to hit on. I don't know for sure though.. maybe this is what's happening with you? Whatever it is I bet it is driving you crazy, so maybe it is just best to leave it alone and be friendly when he does text you, but not expect anything to come from that.
i would have forgotten about him even though I liked him. I mean maybe he did have a reason as to why he has not communicated with you, who knows. But I would just move on girl because what if he was checking over his contacts and he suddenly saw ur name and decided to txt you out of the blue... naw I would just move on. I wouldn't make myself available for him b.c it's been months since you have had communication, he's not worth it...trust me. there are other fish in the sea so don't worry... =]
I would've tried to forget about him althought it would be really hard, I would just ignore his text. Find yourself a new crush to go after. Have some dignity... don't always make yourself available just because it has now been "convenient" for him.
i don't know your relationship with the guy, but sometimes guys just don't want to seem too needy or desperate. So they space their messages out over long periods of time.There's this girl I really like, and she moved away and I text her like once a month, sometimes more sometimes less. I think this whole conspiracy thing that he's looking over his numbers and just picking some random chick (you) is going kind of overboard. Not all guys are manipulative pimps out to use vulnerable women. I mean, use your judgement, if the guy is flaky and kind of shady, then yeah I wouldn't deal with it. But if he's a nice guy that's hard to read, he's probably nervous or unsure of how often to text you. my 2 cents
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this always happens me they come back into my life just as I'm moving on as if there is an alarm to let them know I'm moving on lets give her a text to gt her back to were she was lol I have to say I don't handle this too good in my head but I just ttry to not text back and keep moving forward
I would tell him to peace out. Guys do that because they had another girl in the picture and I don't know about you but I'm not trying to be somebody's backup plan. I would just be too busy to deal with him.
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