Girls, do you like a man to be unpredictable?

[Anonymous]

Do you like a man to be hard to read? Unpredictable? Maybe even mysterious? Spontaneous? Let us know what you think!

[boomokgirl]

Yes :D but I'm the kind of girl who likes either to chase or be chased. When a guy is hard to read, my interest is peaked. Its the challenge of cracking the shell and becoming one of the few who knows the real him. Or, if I'm being chased I like a bit of unpredictability as to what he's going to do. Such as randomly hug me from behind, or take me on a surprise date.

[May31]

Nope. I like to have my feet planted firmly on the ground with a guy & to watch him change every time, will probably annoy the heck out of me. Then the mysterious guy can be great at first, but at some point, I'll get tired of trying so hard to know him & leave him behind. Spontaneous guys can be really fun though...

[Mspink21]

Yes! Mysterious and unpredictable! But only to a certain extent, ps. I don't like guys to show up spontaneously, I hate that because I like to know on time. But I would love if a guy where to say hey il pick you up in 2hrs get ready. And he surprises me...etc. But I chase and dig unpredictable men ;)

[music-diva]

in a way yes. If a guy I was dating randomly showed up at my house to surprise me after work or sent me flowers randomly or planned a spontaneous picnic or adventure then YES!

[techkitty]

A little mystery is good, to much gets irritating. At some point you have to let a girl know the real you. Spontaneous is fun though ;-)

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Sure that'd be fun.

He just has to understand the fine line between mysterious / unpredictable - and just being difficult.

[scnbabe89]

Yes it keeps things interesting and fun. You should spice things up from time to time.

[briannamarieb]

I do. I get bored with the same ol same ol, but then sometimes it's nice to have some stability.