I would like to know how to become a female version of a player?

[hannah72076]

How do you be female player? I'm tired of getting hurt and being the only one in the relationship to be done the ways that I have.. Help me plzz

[Anonymous]

Alright. I have given this talk many times to friends, and now it's time to pass it onto you. Under no circumstance should you ever go into a relationship unless it's actually going to mean something. I'm so completely serious. Relationships are a screwy and hard subject. People get hurt very easily. If you are so tired of getting hurt why on earth would you want to inflict that pain onto others? I don't care how many boys have broken your heart for me its been 5, and yes I know it hurts so bad. But that doesn't give you reason to hurt anyone else like that. No one deserves that sort of emotional damage, but unfortunately it happens. It's a completely f*cked up world. So don't make it any worse. Becoming a player isn't going to help. Just wait until you find someone who you KNOW cares about you and make them fight for you. Don't give in to people easily. Don't let anyone else be what you are dependent on for happiness, because ultimately it will cause your downfall.

[hannah72076]

Yeah you are right.. but I didn't mean I wanted to hurt the guys.. I just meant how do you keep the feelings under wraps.. Like don't let feelings get in the way... does that make sense?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that makes sense but relationships that don't mean anything that sorta thing? They just don't work. Someone always gets hurt.

[hannah72076]

Yeah I figured as much.. damn lol.. thanks!

[TheUglyOne]

Ah, that's different from wanting to be a player.

What you actually want is a little harder to acheive but easy to do. Simply harden your heart and stop caring.

[Anonymous]

A female player isn't the same thing as a male player. the female version of a guy player would be a whore. playing guys for sex is not only not a big deal, but can mess up your reputation and make you undesirable if many men have bedded you in a short time frame so you don't wanna go that route. a successful female player is actually a gold digger. most gold diggers are highly sought after women who have men catering to them and pleasing them. they tend to be bitchy and selfish, but hey that's what players are. go out with guys who give you what you want and benefit u. don't get in relationships looking for your next husband or love of your life. go for guys who can do things for you and make your life easier. wanna get stuff paid for? go to nice places? that sort of stuff.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to be a player? That makes you just as bad as the ones who have hurt you. You should be patient and maybe some day you'll find someone who will love and respect you as much as you do to them, but don't ever try to be a player. Players are only players for 'sex'. They don't know the first thing about a healthy, nice relationship. If you act like a player, only players will go for you, and then you'll get hurt again.

[TheUglyOne]

It's not that hard for a woman lol. Lots of men are desperate for female attention, since women are only attracted to at best 30% of the male population.

Be flirty and touchy-feely with guys.

Just lie about your intentions.

Tell them you're a simple girl looking for a nice guy.

Lead the nice guy on by saying everything he wants to hear, being everything he wants to be.

When his heart is firmly in your fist, breakup with him, tell him you decided you can't stand nice guys, everything about his manhood is girlie.

Watch as he sobs in total broken hearted-ness because he was sincere and honest then delight in his misery.

To rub salt in his wounds, tell him "we can still be friends".

Piece of cake, a walk in Piccadily Circus!

[guy532]

Simplest thing in the world. Go up to 10 guys and ask if they want to sleep with you, no strings attached, 8/10 will probably say yes. Or go to a bar find a semi drunk dude, grab his d*** and tell him you want to take him home. Being a slut is the easiest thing in the world.

[hannah72076]

why are there stupid double standards? I don't get it.. Plus I don't wanna be slut or a ho, I just don't wanna get hurt anymore.. ya kno

[guy532]

I know what you mean, I wrote that answer to show you your error in your thinking. Double standards exist because it takes "skill" for a guy to be a player, while it takes none for a girl (am sure you've heard of the lock and key saying). Getting your heart broken is horrible (am in the same place now). I was going to put a but, but I realized there isn't one, it just plain sucks. All you can do is move on and hope that next time you're just a little more lucky. Take some time for yourself.

[BennyB]

You don't wanna be a female version of a player. A player is a douchebag, and a female douchebag is just a whore. You just don't want to be hurt. Don't let yourself become attached to a guy until well into the relationship.

[papercut2]

The female version of a player is a ho

Double standards up in your face

[Anonymous]

Female version of a player? That's easy, just woo any guy and then leave him hanging.

[Anonymous]

For a girl the easiest way is to go up to a guy and say "I want to have sex with you". Do this to multiple guys and you're a shoo in.

[BCRanger10]

Here's a better idea: don't.