I just wonder this "Why are you/yall so angry/frustrated at them though?"
Why are so many young men frustrated with women?
I just wonder this "Why are you/yall so angry/frustrated at them though?"
I think these are the broad factors why many young men are frustrated with women:
1. Today's men have been raised to believe that men and women are just the same and that gender is a social construct. Even many women themselves repeat this claim. Then men find out that women actually want the manly, assertive men who today's men simply don't know how to be. Young men feel lied to.
2. Men are being constantly criticized by feminists, who often outright lie (such as on rape, the 'wage gap'...). Most young women today either support these criticisms or do nothing to rebut them.
3. Young men are tired of the phenomenon whereby women want equality when that benefits women and inequality when that benefits women.
Personally, though, I'm not frustrated with today's women, as I do not consider romance to be the focus of my life. I'm more frustrated by the general irrationality of our society, of which feminism is just one manifestation. I'm more frustrated by the fact that, for example, thanks to government regulation, it's utterly difficult to start a business.
This might be MHO when it's all said and done because it's s true
When I still cared about pursuing women, it was emotionally torturous having to deal with the games some of them play. Rarely am I ever brought to my knees because the pain in my chest is unbearable, but it only happens with women and their bullshit games (well a few in particular, to avoid generalizing).
There are rules of civility rooted in empathy when it comes to engaging someone with a dating proposal. The women I've approached didn't give a flying fuck about civility and empathy. One of the worst cases was being ignored. Even girls that I respectfully walked away from with parting words were vengeful and attempted sucker punches at me through social media.
When I'm being rational and understanding (not trying to sound arrogant, but it's true) and the other side will break every rule in the book with borderline psychopathic behaviors, I'm frustrated.
But that's all in the past, I don't pursue that anymore. Too draining.
After hearing that I don't blame you man. I've seen girls do dudes like that all of the time BUT HEY they don't care because it's not THEM, RIGHT?
I agree with you 100% and that is why if a girl doesn't show any interest in me 1st keep it pushing.
Because by complimenting/thirsting over her. You're doing nothing but padding her EGO and allowing her to keep getting away with acting that way towards men in general because she thinks it's alright lol
Even if we/I stop doing ___ to them they'll get it from some other loser which is sad AND NEEDS TO STOP LOL.
The thirsty, overconfident guys may have just as much a hand in this as the EGO-INFLATED girls do. Cause and effect. It's tough to point fingers in this case. It's a jungle out there, and I'm not participating anymore. Surely, they don't care. But as you say, another thirsty guy with 7 girls on speed dial with scoop her up.
LOL Agreed at your last line
They play a huge part in it without even knowing it LOL. I mean think about it, if all men chose to say screw APPROACHING girls. Either A the human race would end (not going to happen) or B girls would be forced into approaching us, which would/could happen quite easily if it wasn't for those thirsty ass dudes ^_^.
I was going write a long essay, but all Imma say is this. "Girls are just as thirsty as us dudes" but unlike us they can get away with being passive about it LOL. But if every man was like me, ya know the kind that'll force women into approach them or nothing would happen between us/those 2. THINGS WOULD BE CHANGED IN ABOUT 1 YEAR tops ya heard it hear 1st.
Hell, more times than not, the man does everything in the relationship these days itseemns, right? SO WHY WOULD I APPROACH HER THEN? of anything you think that she'd approach me because I'm expected to pay for this or that LOL
You're right in saying that girls seem to have all the leverage but my concern over "inaction" being implemented as an equalizer is the limits of our own biology, as well as most women's tendency to lay down for their male idols.
Theoretically if 90% of guys chose to never approach, the upper 10% could still impregnate the entire female population if need be. That's natural selection at work, with passive men being excluded from the gene pool. Now with regards to male idols, I have yet to see an enthusiastic teenage girl concerned over how many women her favorite rockstar slept with. She would take his seeds in a heartbeat if he made her feel special.
Being fair or unfair doesn't play into this, because dating is entirely a selfish game. What's fair is always what's best for our own interests.
"I have yet to see an enthusiastic teenage girl concerned over how many women her favorite rockstar slept with. She would take his seeds in a heartbeat if he made her feel special. " AGREED can't argue with you there lololol
I think it's one thing to be like wow that person is HORRIBLE like male anon said but you can't look at entire gender and be like they're allllll the same. Because we're not.
The main thing I see with the guys on here who complain is that they treat all girls the same and never sees individuals. Then they get upset because the individual girl doesn't like them.
Awww boo hoo... Life's a freaking bitch
@RideOrDie96
Wow you are not doing much for you case here, bud.
Don't call me bud because I am not your bud.
@RideOrDie96
Ell Oh Ell...
Because they can't easily get what they want.
They're pissed off women have a choice in who they want to date and nobody ever prepared these guys for that.
Some go so far in their bitterness as to blame homicide on women i. e. if women hadn't rejected X, he wouldn't have went on a killing spree.
How utterly pathetic.
"Some go so far in their bitterness as to blame homicide on women i. e. if women hadn't rejected X, he wouldn't have went on a killing spree." Umm, I agree to some extent about the because You're right in this case but those guys were whackos from the start.
But I KNOW 1st hand, that females can and will cause MEN (simps/white knights) usually to kill each other LOL.
5 out of my 8 dead homies have died all because of what broad SAID, so yeah y'all do cause them. NOW I'M not going to BLAME it on y'all since it was their own damn faults for being retarded.
I blame it on their parents TBH. I mean "look at Elliott Rodgers for example" he was a perfect example of what you're saying in the 1st 2 paragraphs. He Thought that girls would just jump in his arms like everything else in his life... boy was he wrong
5 of your mates are dead because of something a woman said to them?
Did she hypnotise them into killing each other?
Too many guys put pussy on a pedestal, pander to it and when things don't go the way they want, they point fingers at women trying to blame all the woes in the world on us and in primitive countries they actually do.
Most of the frustration is over not getting what they want.
"Too many guys put pussy on a pedestal, pander to it " THERE YA GO right there LOL www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1365073-the-female-pedestal Read my reply to that question ^_^
1st you're right because no one forced/tricked them into doing it. But problems usually seem to arise when you get girls starting crap that they know/knew damn well they had no plans on finishing.
I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. For example girls will say "IMMA GET MY __ TO BEAT YO A*S or she'll say __ to some random man" knowing damn well she's not going to be the 1 to fight the fight in the end LOL.
Now that's how/why most of my homies are DEAD NOW. Because their GIRLFRIENDS decided to run off at the mouth for no reason at all and to DEFEND her honor. Which in fact CAUSED THEIR DEATHS because if it wasn't for "said" girl THOSE GUYS wouldn't haven even had a beef with each other LOL
Women will get a new BF while their BABYDADDY is still int he picture which = problems between those two men. Most of the time 1 ends up dead because of her.
You keep some peculiar company, bruh.
While I understand what point you're trying to make, you can't blame a woman for somebody else's actions. That's what they do in repressive Muslim societies where a woman's eyes are blamed on a guy raping her.
A guy doesn't have to do shit to "defend her honour". People run their mouths all the time, you're not obligated to follow through with whatever bullshit someone said. And if you did follow though, then a) nobody made you and b) nobody forced you to date the crazy bitch either.
Go to court and try to use "she told me to" as a defence for assault, see how well that flies.
People need to take responsibility for their own actions and if they choose to worship pussy and follow every demand, it's THEIR choice.
Oh, I agree and by the way, I don't do any of that foolishness that I just described NOR would I even date a crazy big mouthed bit*h as LOL. Since I know 1st hand what would happen to me probably aka Me laying in a casket somewhere.
WHICH is something I refuse to let happen to me, unlike those idiots over a girl. I would just simply walk away OR let her fight her own fight... OFC people would shame be for that decision, "but hey screw them" LOL
I know it seems like I'm trying to BLAME it on women, But that's not my plan, because in the end LIKE YOU SAID "there's nothing in the rule book saying that you have to defend her honor". Hell, more times than not, the GUYS are the ones allowing them to think that they can get away with that BS. Since she they know that __ will do anything to get laid LOL #randomthought
So In the end it's their fault, but sometimes will help lead them to their demise. Then again that's what they get for being such allowing it to happen.
Because men think women are a mystery, but in reality we are very simple. They need to stop trying to read bewteen the lines and take their words and actions at face value.
Judging by those downvotes they don't like your reply LOL
Most women are simple to me, but i can see why they say that you guys aren't most of the time KLOL
Opinion
17Opinion
Because they try to denial of women's true nature what is right and become frustrated because of it.
TRUTH IS ABOVE LIGHT AND DARKNESS AND CAN NEVER BE CORRUPTED.
Because its true not because of religion but because its the undeniable, non fallacy, truth that embodies elements of true righteousness and not justice which can be subject to manipulation OF evil sometimes BUT HOWEVER RIGHTEOUSNESS CAN NEVER BE MANIPULATED YOU CAN ONLY FOOL YOURSELF INTO THINKING YOU MANIPULATED THE RIGHT THING. TRUTH STANDS ABOVE BOTH LIGHT AND DARKNESS AND IS NOT SUBJECT TO THEIR WHIMS OR MANIPULATIONS.
SO,
1. WOMEN ARE NOT EVIL THEY ARE CHAOS ITSELF
2. THEREFORE DO NOT COMPARE WOMEN TO EVIL
3. IF THEY DONT GET THEIR WAY THEY ARE MORE THAN WILLING TO SABOTAGE ANYTHING BE IT THE SOURCE OF ALL LIFE AND HAPPINESS EVEN.
do not get too close to a woman or you will permanantly lose the ability to love anything at all this does not mean you are becoming less manly or anything but i strongly urge other men to reexamine your behaviour which is slowly emulating the behavior of cruelty of women. If this continues too far you will lose sight of yourself forever and permanantly at that. truth reigns supreme over BOTH GOD AND THE DEVIL and there is nothing even they can do about it except sit around and SULK IN THEIR RESPECTIVE REALMS.
Lol, those people actually are just entitled. They think by doing ALL THE THINGS girls are supposed to jump his bones. That is not how humans work, and many people seem to have forgotten that due to gender segregation.
LOL Agreed and look at Elliott Rodger for example, when it comes to the entitled thing.
yeah exactly
I just blame on it on his parents for letting him live a sheltered privileged life LOL. They set that psycho up for failure from the very beginning
don't blame the parents though, it's mostly not the parents who prevent male-female socialization in peer groups among children
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1018747-why-are-children-encouraged-to-make-only-same-gendered-friends <-- check out this question by me
@GirlsAskGuys you guys really should fix how <-- an arrow breaks this site
Reading now ^_^ and from what I cam see you're right on point with this 1 judging from the title alone
Yeah, but it's actually not the parents. it's that children harass each other for their "lack of masculinity" or "lack of femininity" or "if you talk to them then you must LOOOOOOOVE them".
LOL Sounds about right and I've seen that happen way to man times throughout school like you said in that question.
Exactly! Gender segregation is enforced by peer groups
I can't argue with you there. Hopefully that changes someday ^_^
it only changes if kids are told not to be dicks about speaking to the other sex
And that starts at home right? ^_^
... in way too many homes -_-
Men think that the evil things (evil to us) women do is done intentionally. They think it's WHO they are, but they need to understand that it's WHAT they are.
Just like there's things we do that women hate and feel is just wrong, which makes some women think men are evil and get frustrated with us.
What men and women need to do is understand each other, understand WHAT the opposite gender is. Don't think that their innate actions define who they are.
Hmm never thought about it in that way lol
When a girl gets pissed at you and curses you out, calls you names, or talks shit about something personal/sensitive to you. It doesn't mean she's a bad person, that's her responding with her emotions, they can't help it, it's WHAT they are.
^ this is one of the basic examples.
When she does all of those things it turns me 1 #randommistfact lol
SSounds about right ^_^
In my opinion, it's because no one prepared them for what life was actually going to be like. So they had either to invent their own preconceptions (which were wrong) or they paid too much attention to the wrong sources (which were wrong) and now when women don't react as they expect, they get frustrated.
Like the guys who think if you act like an asshole, women will throw themselves at you. They try it, it doesn't work, and rather than blame the source of the bad advice, they blame women.
Agreed and I've seen it happen on here way to often via question LOL
Since being in a relationship or being with a woman are my last priority in life right now I say I dont care for now. But my reasons would be that women now a days expect to much from us but dont want to play their part in return. They think that SEX is the only thing that we live for.
LOL I just told another GAGuy the same thing basically which is funny ^_^.
"Hell, more times than not, the man does everything in the relationship these days it seems, right? SO WHY WOULD I APPROACH HER THEN? of anything you think that she'd approach me because I'm expected to pay for this or that LO"
Its the damn truth but sometimes I believe the majority of men nowadays fucked it up for all of us. The majority of me nowadays would do anything for the pussy that it isn't even funny. So my guess is that women nowadays adapted to this and found a way to take advantage of this. Or maybe not, I mean correct me if I'm wrong but I think women have been exchanging their pussies for everything they wanted since the beginning of humanity. Though not of us were alive back then to know this but according to science back in the caveman era I think the only way we could of gotten laid was to kill mammoths, sabretooth tigers and even dinosaurs with stick and stones.
But anyways coming back to the present I myself today have given up on relationships and the pussy all together because I refuse to do any modern day hoochy hoes that favor
"I think the only way we could of gotten laid was to kill mammoths, sabretooth tigers and even dinosaurs with stick and stones." NO BS, I truly believe that's how it was back then OR they just went up to a girl and had sex with her. Just like you see DOGS do these days for example. I guess the equivalent these days would be having a nice ___ and ___ in place of the "killing a animal thing" ^_^
"I refuse to do any modern day hoochy hoes that favor" LOL #Icantevenbreathrightnowfromlaughingsohard
Hey you're that sexy black man I've been seeing don't try to hide I know its you
Now to your question personally I'm not frustrated with them just annoyed at how they think since they really contradict themselves most of the time if the boot don't fit let it fly 👌🏿
LOL *hides in the mist now* I think I know who you're
I am everything you say at most women that are my age or younger because I am a good person but that means nothing. I don't really know why I bother being nice. All I get back pretty much is being treated like I am the scum of the earth.
Ya every wonder why they treat ya bad?
I can hardly see your face, but if you really are so called ugly I guess that's why. I'm ugly also ><
Because they throw women up onto a pedestal, and when they utilise that privilege they are given the men blame any issues that arise on women because of their supposed 'power'.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1365073-the-female-pedestal Hmm can't argue with you there and I've said something similar to a GAGuy on this question. if only men would stop doing that dumb crap lol
Because they have to target their anger at someone, nobody wants to target it at themselves. It's always easier to blame someone else.
Have you spoken to one that wasn't interested in you? Because they can really be a pain when they lead us around just to let us fall in a pit.
What?
"Because they can really be a pain when they lead us around just to let us fall in a pit." I said the same thing on my question that i just linked you basically. I also said "Agreed" ^_^
Oh lol. Glad I didn't say anything to start shit. So tired my mind cannot connect words with cusses in the middle. Is a sad day.
I'll have to read your other question when I'm more coherent lol.
LOl ^_^ I hear ya
They can be cruel.
When a girl I knew turned me down, she made a point to do it in public and even used her knowledge of my sister being raped to make the rejection sting as much as possible.
You never forget shit like that.
I tell girls that all of the time, when it comes to the rejecting thing. Ya know this "Let the GUY off easy and calmly, YOU DON'T HAVE TO SCREAM OUT LOUD AND PUT HIM ON BLAST" because that does nothing but either make him mad, look like a loser, ruin his self esteem even more.
Damn that girl's wrong for that 1.
I've let it go. But it's in the back of my mind, knowing that a girl who up that point I had thought was my friend can behave so cruelly that fast, without any prior red flags to think it may happen.
There was never any reason to drag my sister's tragedy into something as simple and routine as a romantic rejection. Just say "no thank you" and be done with it.
Don't understand the female downvote. Girl, you think it's okay to emotionally abuse someone over their sister being raped? WTF is wrong with you?
Because they didn't know well about girls yet this time even some girls hates men I saw both the issues here.
LOL AGreed
Thanks for agreeing with me
I`m not, some people just aren't meant to be with someone, like myself I know I`m meant to be alone it`s just a part of natural selection. I can`t be mad about that, I`m just accepting it
Nice to hear @ not being mad at them. But why do you think that you're going to be alone?
Because nowhere in school or even by parents are guys taught how to attract someone they like.
Agreed and that's why most of us say "Why in the hell are we learning this useless stuff and not the stuff that'll be useful in the real world" LOL
Because they can't get laid? I think it's just bitterness.
LOL That could be it hopefully more guys answer this question
Probably because they have no luck with them.
Can't argue with you there and I can also see why they would become that way towards women then.
I'm actually not frustrated nor angry at them.
she wants to become a star.
Umm I hear ya, I'm kinda lost for a change though ^_^
women want attention men want money.
Of anything you'd think that girls want both, right? LOL
competition is too fierce that we lose sense of collecting money often. that's why pimps take all her money.
I think I get ya #sorryforbeingsoslow
I am not. Why? Because I'm horny
LOL Jus tlike that huh? ^_^
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions