I think it is just a cliché he is using rather than telling me the truth about what he really thinks.
i think its bullsh*t/. there's no guarantees in a relationship. both people usually end up getting hurt. that's not why people get into or don't get into relationships. they do it because they want to be together.
hes also got some huge ego. for all he knows you could hurt him.
id say he's playing hard to get or is actually afraid of getting hurt himself and is projecting. or doesn't actually care about you the way you think he does and is just keeping you around in case nothing better shows up. and is keeping you at bay with that lone< I don't think it'd this but I'm throwing it in there because I'm sure itll come up. and I don't think its this.
i defdont think what he's saying means he doesn't want a rel.
when people know what they want they don't qualify it. they just tell yu. they don't say I don't want this bc-then talk about you.
if he was serious he'd talk about himself. I don't want to be in a relationship because I can't handle the commitment. or w/e. because even he thinks he'd hurt i. there's a reason. and its not about you its about him. and that's what he's not mentioning. because there's no reason because he's full of sh*t. imo.
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let him alone...be happy don't contact him..he will wonder soon enough...
if he comes back..great...if not...then you are still a happy girl doing great stuff for yourself..
never never fall into these silly traps
don't talk to him more...jsut respect his wishes regardless of his reasons ... lol those reasons are really not important...
whats clear is he now wants to be single...
This question is actually something of a gem since you are not any of these link
Allow me to look into my magic crystal ball *hmmmm*...
Ah yes! The reason is: He has other plans he doesn't want to tell you about. What kind of plans... hmmm, the crystal ball does not show.
Does he intend to leave Brisbane in a couple of years after you just moved there?
He's pretending he's a badboy, hoping that is what attracts girls - a sense of danger and the belief that even if he says he will hurt you, that you'll be able to tame him and not get hurt.
He'll treat you like sh*t if you let him, and then tell you it's your own fault because he warned you.
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Hes not that attracted to you physically. He's only a little attracted to you and not ready to jump into a full on relationship.
He knows that if you have sex and take a step further that he will eventually break up with you because he's just not at that level of attraction.
He likes you a little or he wouldn't have done those things.
Its a little but not enough to commit too.
Ive said that before and that's what I mean.Usually this means 'I am not going to be monogamous'.
He doesn't like you. He will hurt you because he doesn't like you. DUH.
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