he doesn't really care but he feels bad about it, so he put on a lengthy, poorly thought out facade in an attempt to spare your feelings, which is difficult and draining to do. this makes him sort of a douchebag, but at least he pretended to care, at least in the past. move on and find someone who isn't such a capable liar
we have what we call the pride.. guys are egocentric.. look. we don't like girls see us weak that is the reason why he is acting cool.. he don't want you to see the real feeling deep inside.. best way is move like what he is doing..
its their defense mechanism. they're supposed to be "strong" and bounce right back, hence the reason why rebounds are so popular. they don't want to seem weak (God forbid). Plenty of different reasons (:
well I think that he just wants to have you when he wants to. like if he doesn't want you now he will break up with you and then a month later he knows you'll still be there so he can come and go as he pleases you just gotta show him you won't wait around
He wants his cake and eat it too. He wants the perks of knowing someone is there when needed but not the ties of a commitment. Do the same . No matter how much you want to hang out the next time he calls sound like your distracted and give a gracious refusal. Don't be wordy in your explanation why and see if the next offer to hang out isn't sooner.
Seems he just wants the benefits of a relationship without commitment. And of course, you "seem" to want the same thing, but judging by your question, I don't think that's really the case.
They act like they don't care because they probably don't care..lol..seriously they move on and handle things in a different way to us girls that's why they are guys and we are girls!
its a guy...they don't like to act all depressed and down and sad when a break up happens, just let him do his thing and if he really wants to be together in the future than let that moment come...
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he doesn't really care but he feels bad about it, so he put on a lengthy, poorly thought out facade in an attempt to spare your feelings, which is difficult and draining to do. this makes him sort of a douchebag, but at least he pretended to care, at least in the past. move on and find someone who isn't such a capable liar
we have what we call the pride.. guys are egocentric.. look. we don't like girls see us weak that is the reason why he is acting cool.. he don't want you to see the real feeling deep inside.. best way is move like what he is doing..
its their defense mechanism. they're supposed to be "strong" and bounce right back, hence the reason why rebounds are so popular. they don't want to seem weak (God forbid). Plenty of different reasons (:
well I think that he just wants to have you when he wants to. like if he doesn't want you now he will break up with you and then a month later he knows you'll still be there so he can come and go as he pleases you just gotta show him you won't wait around
He wants his cake and eat it too. He wants the perks of knowing someone is there when needed but not the ties of a commitment. Do the same . No matter how much you want to hang out the next time he calls sound like your distracted and give a gracious refusal. Don't be wordy in your explanation why and see if the next offer to hang out isn't sooner.
Seems he just wants the benefits of a relationship without commitment. And of course, you "seem" to want the same thing, but judging by your question, I don't think that's really the case.
They act like they don't care because they probably don't care..lol..seriously they move on and handle things in a different way to us girls that's why they are guys and we are girls!
its a guy...they don't like to act all depressed and down and sad when a break up happens, just let him do his thing and if he really wants to be together in the future than let that moment come...
Look You Have Dated Him Before Am I Right! And He My Think You R Moving Onto Another Guy And That (of couse) Offends Him!
Babe...he does care. He just doesn't show it because he doesn't want anyone to think he is weak.
Spot On
he is not telling you everything not lying but keeping it to hisself
It's because dwelling on you hurts so he has to pretend he doesn't care or it will be too painful.
Because they DON'T care. If they did, there wouldn't have been a breakup.
I gotta say for a average man it seems like a sign of weakness to act like we care after something like that me being an average man of course.
guys don't like showing emotions that's just how we are trust me I hate showing emotions it like showing weakness
im a girl I think the same thing, I think there is a lot of misconception going around about how comfortable girls are being emotional,
they don't want to show their emotions gust like you girls do
he is hidinh his feelings
pure and simple
One word- ego.