5 Reasons Why I Need Women in My Life

[david]

Do you know I've got four friends who have ALL said they aren't ever going to date? Well, two have been dating but after several bad experiences, they're just quitting.

I've had a few bad experiences myself but I can't bring myself to quit. I don't even understand why I should. Who strikes gold the first time, anyway? Who hasn't driven home late at night after a shitty date saying something like, "I sooooooo don't need this"? How many guys have believed, more than once, that all they need is a comfortable chair, some video games, and a bunch of porn and be happy forever? I think we've all thought it at least once.

But it just isn't true for me and never will be. Here are five reasons why I absolutely need women in my life:

5. "Lonely" is a real thing guys experience, and it really blows

Yeah, I can hang out with my friends plenty. I've got family, too. But there's something completely different about sharing your life with a female. It gives you a different perspective, a fresh take on things, and trust me, surrounding yourself with only guys gets tiresome. Eventually.

4. Smile once and I'm good for the day

Has anyone noticed how special a girl's smile is? Is it just me? Maybe it's weird but I actually love it when a woman smiles and it doesn't even matter if she's not that attractive. A pretty smile makes just about ANY girl attractive in her own way. When I have a girlfriend, when she smiles (and it helps if I made her smile), I totally get the warm fuzzies. I even call them the "warm fuzzies" in front of my friends because I love it and I don't give a shit what they say.

3. It makes me a better person

It really does, you know. When I'm in a relationship, I'm the best version of myself. And everyone sees it, too; my friends and family always notice it. My parents always say they can tell immediately when I've met someone new that I'm excited about, and the more I fall for this person, the better I get. I'm just happier, friendlier, cheerier, more ambitious, more forgiving of things I generally hate (stupidity, ignorance, etc.), and it's just...great.

2. Sex

Yeah, I know. Guys think I should've put this at #1 but honestly, it doesn't deserve to be there. Sex is huge for me, of course, but I also love the closeness surrounding lovemaking. It's just secondary to the biggest thing, which is having someone to care about, and having someone who cares about me. Wait...I just gave it away, so let's move on...

1. Having someone I can care for, and having someone who cares for me

Doctors and psychologists and normal people everywhere all say the same thing: Human beings all have an intrinsic need to love and be loved. We all do, whether we choose to acknowledge this need or not. We can shove it down, we can turn a blind eye, we can pretend the urge isn't that powerful; we can try all these tactics and in the end, the fact remains. We all want to want someone, and we want someone to want us. Simple and unavoidable. Why not embrace it?

[AleDeEurope]

You don't need a woman for this... a man can give you the same things.

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[openthedoors]

Great take it's refreshing to see someone not hating on the opposite sex.

[Mrwoo99]

Typical simpy mytake. Here are 5 reasons why you don't need a woman in your life:

1. Have lots of money (free from alimony and girlfriend allowances)

2. Your guranteed to keep your resources (house, businesses and money in bank etc)

3. More sex! (Which comes back to number 1 because you'll have lots of money and plenty of options in choosing women for one night stands, friends with benefits and even sex with gorgeous escorts who will always look hot and won't eventually get fat and saggy like your girlfriend or wife will)

4. No drama or emotional BS (no emotional weight being placed on your head, no stress, baggage, whining, being manipulated, controlled or responsibility)

5. Freedom (you can travel anywhere you want, do and say as you please without responsibilities)

On a final note: As long as you either got money, game, nice physique and status you will always have abundance with women. A women only supports a man's sex life, nothing else, nothing more.

MGTOW= Happy life. Anyone here heard of a unhappy bachelor?

[Mrwoo99]

An yeah I forgot to mention; women don't care for you because they only care how sexually attractive you are. As long as you have a six pack, tall height, lots of money and status she probably love you then.

[Fathoms77]

"Anyone here heard of a unhappy bachelor?"

At age 23? No.

At age 33? 43? 53? Yes. Lots. I know many... one of the reasons 23-year-olds shouldn't pretend they know everything about women and relationships. ;)

[Mrwoo99]

@Fathoms77 well do those men have money?

[Fathoms77]

Some have money, some don't. But the idea that all bachelors are happy is logically absurd.

I know young men seem to think they've got women all figured out, that certain rash generalizations (i. e., "women only go for men with money") are automatically true. But as life goes on, they start to figure out that nothing is 100 percent and in fact, some of the stuff they actually believed at one point just makes them wince when they're older and reflecting. ;)

Plus, girls grow up to be women. GIRLS might only go for hot guys with money but WOMEN have more depth. Of course, some girls never grow up but then again, a lot of guys don't, either.

[Yoloxt23]

#3 is optional, you don't necessarily need to have sex. I'm a voluntary celibate myself.

[Yoloxt23]

@Fathoms77 Really, you think unhappy bachelors will ever want marriage? I know sometimes, I think of having nothing but kids with women.

[Yoloxt23]

@Fathoms77 All I want from women is to reproduce, to be able to have kids. I love kids and I'll have no problem paying child support but I don't see myself getting married with a woman in the future!

[aficionado]

5) Loneliness isn't a big deal, people eventually get used to it. I have been 'lonely' for years now, but I like it this way. In fact, I usually enjoy solitude. I have my trusty headphones for company anyway!

4) Agree with this, but listening to my favourite music or firing up a video game gives me similar happiness so I don't really miss a woman's smile.

3) Not really, I'm a self made man. No one except myself can make me better (or worse).

2) I agree with it, but sex is still overrated. I don't even feel aroused much anymore, and whenever I do, I can rely on my hand (because I don't believe in casual sex).

1) Valid point, but I do have a my immediate family and a few friends. I care for them and they care for me. That's sufficient, don't need a woman for that.

[SpinningDude69]

(because I don't believe in casual sex).

Casual sex is for a reason there.

[aficionado]

@SpinningDude69

I know, but it's not for me. I have never indulged in any kind of physical intimacy outside of the relationships I was in.

[SpinningDude69]

It's time to do so.

[aficionado]

@SpinningDude69

Not really, sex doesn't really interest me anymore. The only way I'll have sex, is if I get into a relationship again. And I'm not giving up on relationships, I just don't go around 'seeking' women.

[SpinningDude69]

You are confusing as hell man, you don't seek woman, you seek them just for adventure but whatever I say you make it negative, I just don't see a point of arguing with you here for another 10 hours.

[aficionado]

@SpinningDude69

Just read my opinion and comments again. I haven't ever said I have given up on relationships. It's just that I don't give a shit about chasing women, impressing them, courting them etc.

And I'm not interested in arguing either, not even 10 minutes. Just saying I never said anything confusing, you got confused because you 'assumed' certain things.

[Mrwoo99]

I can be happy single as long as I have abundance of sex with women. I just need sex.

[true_love_lover18]

Man, this is what I have been trying to say. Don't worry about the guys hating. They're just bitter. The only thing I would change is that sex is maybe #5 for me. Not that important. But all of the others are wonderful and so true. The smile, having someone who loves you and cares about you, bringing out the best in yourself, and really, who wants to be lonely forever? I know I don't. Great take.

[Anonymous]

Sorry to break it to you , but the felling is NOT mutual from the female side !! Women far prefer their own gender , note the ultra close touch-feely female friendships , also unlikely you will get much , if any of no 2 , sexual desire in a woman is a tiny fraction of man's , women ALWAYS complain about men wanting sex & look down on us as " rapey , perverts , disgusting " etc , just for having a typical male libido.

In summary , women do not need , or want men anymore , women see men as an irrelevant nuisance at best , or to feminists , a plague to be eradicated.

[Unit1]

Ohhh... yes, yes, YES!

I too want girls and women in my life. Girls and women decorate my life, making it amazing and it's so sweet and embracing. <3
Your points are all very good and these apply to me as well with the exception of your type of loneliness!

Wonderful take!

[TommySparta]

They are wonderful creatures. They give birth to us, raise us, and love us. Just seeing them smile brings joy to my day. This is why I hate this darn age. Everyone is always hating on the other sex for bullshit reasons. We need to destroy this "division" of girls take the girls side and same thing with men. But yea, pretty sure i would rather die then live without women.

[SpinningDude69]

This is why I hate this darn age. Everyone is always hating on the other sex for bullshit reasons.

They are reasons for it as well as reasons for loving them. You can't change that.

[John_Doesnt]

I need someone to do my laundry and make those sandwiches.

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[SammyGurl]

That's so sweet, Thank You. It's nice for girls to feel honored by guys once in a while. I totally agree with your five statements, you know what, if girls are really honest we feel almost exactly the same!

[LoloWaye]

I loved this! I tried for so long to deny that I wanted anyone because I didn't want to admit how lonely I was. Like anyone else I'm tired of lying, playing games, etc and just avoided forming any emotional connection with a guy at all out of fear. Now I'm learning these things just take time and I need to start embracing guys and getting to know them, not running away because of assumptions.

[Jager66]

Well colour me impressed, I was expecting a big, shitting rainbows, sappy sentimental post. This was no that, it was pretty good.

[MisterMisoGynist]

simps gonna simp. If women actually knew how to love then explain WHY? women abuse the loving piss out of divorce proceedingsa nd actively engage in the exploitation and suffering of men in divorce/family court/ and alimony proceedings?

The myth that women are the more empathetic, caring sex needs to get gunned down in cold blood. A lie that needs t o be brutally murdered.

[matt1209]

Great take! I agree with a woman smile and knowing someone cares can make your that much better.

[bedroomdweller]

of course i need women because i need to fuck sometimes...

thankfully i can get everything else from my cats and my dogs bffs

[Joe1997]

These are also 5 Reasons Why I Need A Man in My Life! Have not got yet :( (wish me luck!).
You seem to be a sweet guy. Your girlfriend must be happy.

[zombiebabe]

awww good take! the woman of your life will be a lucky one

[Paul09]

Yes, and yes. I totally agree. But in this day in age, it's hard to meet people. A female would complete me.

[Djaaaaaay]

I enjoy a woman around for companionship and to share life with. If she can just be real and just herself and nothing else , then she's welcome with me.

[Djaaaaaay]

Also I don't ever need a woman , just would like a companion to share with... basically that's it for me.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like women have too much of an effect on you. I pity you.

[SpinningDude69]

and I have a pity of someone who hides behind a monitor masking their username as Anonymous and acting like badass where they are in fact some whiny wimp without a brain...

[matt1209]

Why because he wants to make himself better by finding a great women to make happier

[Opinion Owner]

Oh look it's xper 1 getting butthurt over me stating the obvious. First off it's not my fault he allowed anonymous to post.. I can go anon all I want! Maybe if you had a brain you would understand that even if I don't go anon, I'm still anonymous and behind a computer. And at least I'm not a beta who needs a woman to make me a better, happier person.

[SpinningDude69]

Oh look it's xper 1 getting butthurt over me stating the obvious.

Ohh look, guy who doesn't have any XPER says it, how ironic...

First off it's not my fault he allowed anonymous to post..

Still you behave pathetic as I have stated earlier.

I can go anon all I want!

Who cares?

if I don't go anon, I'm still anonymous and behind a computer.

Whatever, what pisses me off about people like you is that they always finds excuse for everything rather than admit it or work it out and just walk off so stop playing your game and go back to your cave.

And at least I'm not a beta who needs a woman to make me a better, happier person.

Now, you really showed your true colours and retardness. Do you really believe in all that beta/alpha shit? 😂 😂 And by the way. even tho you are not admitting it now, later or sooner you will find yourself lonely but by that time it will be too late for you to find someone. Just statin' facts.

[stanhelsing]

I wish i could have someone to do all that but odds are i will never

[FemaleAssassin]

Why would u think like that? :(

[SpinningDude69]

@FemaleAssassin because most women go for a wild guy and chances are this guy @stanhelsing is the opposite. You see what I mean?

[FemaleAssassin]

@SpinningDude69 depends on what u consider to be wild, kiddo.

[SpinningDude69]

@FemaleAssassin Don't even try to play with me... You know what I mean by wild, if not then I feel sorry for your existence and from the age perspective you are still kid compared to me so...

[FemaleAssassin]

@SpinningDude69 i don't understand why u r so butthurt over what i just said but i'm honestly NOT into disrespectful jerks and feel sorry for the ones around them having to put up with their Bullshit :)

[SpinningDude69]

@FemaleAssassin I'm not butthurt but it was more the part of where you called me a kid, that pissed me a lot especially in the case where I don't personally know you.

i'm honestly NOT into disrespectful jerks and feel sorry for the ones around them having to put up with their Bullshit

Well, good for you but most women are into them and that's my opinion from what I have noticed happening in this sick world. There are maybe like 1 girl in a 20 like you so it's really rare I would say. You can ask every guy this question and every single one of them will say the same.

[FemaleAssassin]

@SpinningDude69 i'm sorry if offended u i didn't think you'd bring it up into a personal level.

Well these women aren't probably thinking of settling down or even into marriage... or just staright out dumb, but i have my values and i wouldn't trade them for anything, most women in where i live wouldn't even bat a second eye to someone who is disrespectful to them, yes the bad guy theme might look great in a fantasy but it's extremely repulsing in real life, yes i'm atrracted to mr. nice guy with a wonderful personality , though he must ONLY be wild in bed lol

[SpinningDude69]

@FemaleAssassin It's not that you offended me, it's more likely that it was misinterpretation since the internet and by personal level I mean, I probably wouldn't care about it as much opposed to a person who I don't know at all and called me a kid, you see what I mean?

Well these women aren't probably thinking of settling down or even into marriage...

Well they probably will, especially when they woke up and realize that they don't see a future with a wild guys who are just in it to bone but then again by that time they do it it will be to late.

i have my values and i wouldn't trade them for anything,

At least you have your own standards and know what you want.

most women in where i live wouldn't even bat a second eye to someone who is disrespectful to them.

Good for them, give me an address I will be there right away :P

though he must ONLY be wild in bed lol

https : //www. youtube. com/watch? v=ihSTGqCO52Q

Watch this video and tell me what you think. Remove the spaces tho

[stanhelsing]

im not sure why im down voted. The only thing I am trying to express is that all my attempts at having a relationship have failed and I don't believe that I am going to have one.

[SpinningDude69]

@stanhelsing I believe people downvote you because they think your self esteem is too low and that you don't believe in yourself perhaps?

[Mustachekitteh]

Doesn't really help with how most men truly think of women.