Is It Okay To Have Male Friends While In A Relationship?
Yes, having male friends while in a relationship is quite acceptable. In actuality, making friends with people of the other sex can be advantageous for both you and your partner.
Regardless of gender, friendships should be maintained because they are a vital part of our life. Male friends can provide a level of support and a different point of view on things than may be feasible with female pals. Additionally, getting to know men better and communicating with your partner will be made possible by having male friends.
It is imperative to uphold sound limits and show consideration for your partner's feelings. It is imperative that you inform your partner that your male friendships are entirely platonic. Any relationship needs to be honest and transparent. Remembering your partner's emotions and insecurities is also crucial. Some people may naturally feel threatened by their partner's relationships with people of the opposite sex, so it's important to address these worries and reassure your partner of your dedication to the partnership.
In conclusion, having male friends while in a relationship is OK as long as you respect your partner's space and keep open lines of communication. Any successful relationship must be built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication.
Why Can Your Girlfriend Have Guy Friends?
Friendships are not gender-exclusive, thus your girlfriend can have male friends. It's critical to have faith in your spouse and recognize their capacity to sustain platonic relationships with people of both genders. It's important to understand that just because your girlfriend has acquaintances of the opposing sex, that doesn't indicate she isn't invested in your relationship. Friendships offer companionship, emotional support, and the potential to broaden one's worldview. In fact, having friends of different genders might help your romantic relationship by fostering better communication and understanding.
It's important to respect your partner's feelings and uphold healthy limits, though. You should discuss her male friends with her and be willing to address any worries or insecurities that may surface. The foundation of a strong and fulfilling relationship is honesty, trust, and respect for one another.
There is no reason why your girlfriend cannot be friends with men, to sum up. Having friends of the other sex may be beneficial in any relationship as long as trust, communication, and sound boundaries are upheld.
Is It OK To Be Jealous Of Girlfriend's Male Friends?
It's normal to feel envious of your girlfriend's male friends, but it's crucial to acknowledge and deal with these sentiments in a constructive manner. It's important to speak with your partner and discuss any worries or doubts you may have, rather than letting jealousy overtake you. A good and successful relationship depends on trust and open communication. Keep in mind that your girlfriend is dedicated to you and decided to be with you. As long as her friendships are good and platonic, you should respect and trust her.
What To Do If My Girlfriend Has Male Friends?
Just as it's normal for you to have female friends, it's also normal for your girlfriend to have male friends. The most crucial thing is to have faith in your girlfriend's dedication to your relationship.
It's crucial to be open and honest with your girlfriend about how you feel because communication is essential in any relationship. Focus on expressing your worries and emotions in a calm, courteous manner rather than being accusing or envious. It's crucial to let your girlfriend know how you feel because it's conceivable that she may not even be aware that her male acquaintances are upsetting you.
It's also crucial to keep in mind that just because your girlfriend has male friends doesn't mean she is necessarily interested in them romantically. Giving her the benefit of the doubt and believing that she chose to be with you for a purpose is crucial. Having male friends shouldn't be a problem as long as your relationship is characterized by clear boundaries and honest communication.
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Its her choice wether or not to have guy friends or not. I can't do anything to stop her. But i am the jealous type, so it would bother me, and make me depressed if she spent a lot of time with close guy friends (even though i would probably keep my discomfort to myself). Unless they were my own guy friends, or guy friends of hers that i have met, and trust wholeheartedly, i would have a problem with it and it would make me upset. And if she spent more time with him/them than she did with me, or even just a lot of time in general, it would upset me, no matter how much i trusted the guy in particular.
But of course i would never voice my disconfort because i have yet to meet a girl who actually undestands that almost EVERY "guy friend" of hers is secretly trying to get in her pants eventually. More likely then not, she would end up defending her guy friends, and getting angry with me. That's why its best to just keep it yourself no matter how uncomfortable it makes you.
If it's casual, hanging out with from time to time, hanging out in groups, just talking about a bunch of superficial shit and having fun... Whatever, I don't care. It's good to mix company, healthy even.
But if this is some intimate stuff. If these are the kinds of friendships where people are like married. Where they can talk in front of me and I won't understand what's going on. If she utters those stupid fucking words "like a brother to me"... If that motherfucker she calls a friend tries to one-up me in any way and then play dumb about it...
No, I wouldn't ALLOW her. She can forget it.
Either me, or them.
One of my girl friend's ex was like that. He was so controlling and insecure he didn't even want her to see her girl friends or have any normal interactions with her male colleagues. Even though she was head over heels for him she eventually broke it off cuz it was too suffocating.
you can't control who she's friends with, you don't have the right, you're not respecting your gf and that kind of relationship won't last. Like others said thats not even a relationship, that's slavery and sadism. If you want control go find a girl who's a masochist or even better go find a dog, you can even lock it up in your house.
If you don't trust your partner enough to let them have friends of the opposite gender, then it would be better to find someone else. Because banning them from having friends is kind of ridiculous. Like basically if your girlfriend is bisexual, she wouldn't be allowed to have friends at all
Allow? Where do you live, Pakistan? If I wasn't 'allowed' to have guy friends, I would be suddenly single. And my guy friends would be coming over to help cheer me up. Just out of curiosity... do you yourself have any female friends?
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Uhhh, "Allow"? What the hell. You don't own her -.-
Being in a relationship does not mean the man owns the woman. He has no right to dictate who she spends her time with, who she can talk to, etc, just as she has no right to do the same to him.
I have never done so, and never will, and I stay away from relationships like that. Anyone who is so insecure that they need to "allow" certain relationships to occur are not ready to be in one. The very idea of someone controlling another person's life is disgusting to me. A relationship like that is not a relationship, it is slavery.Allow?
i'm with the girls comments on here as what right do you have to dictate who she can be friends with. With an attitude like that there is a pretty good chance that she will have friends before and after she's known you.
One of my best female who i got to know from work is married and we are quite capable of doing nothing more physical than a hug hello or goodbye.Why not? If she's gonna cheat she'd do it anyway, forbidding her to hangout won't change that. Matter of fact if anything let her, it's easier to find out if she is and with who ( the person she hides, or the person that can't keep eye contact or way too much.) and if she is she wasn't worth you anyways.
You don't own your girlfriend, she doesn't need your permission...😠
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Allow? ALLOW? I would not allow myself to be with a guy who needs to give his permission for me to do as I wish with my friendships.
It is not about allowing her to have male friends she has the right to keep her male friends if she has done nothing wrong like cheated just like a guy has the right to keep his female friends in the same situation. I feel a relationship should be strong enough for men to keep their female friends and women to keep their male friends.
"Allow" is never the right word.
Yes, I'd trust her.Hahaha!! Allow? Excuse me but who the hell thinks they can tell me who i can or can not be friends with? If my SO tried telling me what i am and am not "allowed" to do, well we would definitely have some words!!
'allow' ?
We don't own them...
If she's my girlfriend I'd trust her enough to befriend whoever, otherwise we wouldn't be together.allow? \
you may be her boyfriend but you can't control who she can be friends withIf you have to ALLOW her then your a control freak and shell cheat on you or lie about everything to your face look not all women with male friends are gonna cheat you gotta have some trust
My SO doesn't like any of my guy friends (he doesn't want me to have them either). But there isn't really anything he can do about it.
allow?
she's not your child.She's going to do what she wants. I'm not a slave master. If I don't like what she does, I'll just be out...
"Allow"?
Umm... she's free to make her own decisions about her friends. I can't exactly forbid her from having male friends, nor would I even try.Yes, and I also encourage the woman I'm dating/serving to engage in casual sexual relationships with other men whenever she likes.
I really can't control that.
But if a girl has ONLY male friends, we wouldn't be dating in the first place.Poor choice of words brother, but "yes"
Because I would trust her.
It's her male friends I wouldn't trust.
And I'd break every bone in their body if they tried soemthing stupidNo, don't control her if you don't like any guy friend of her then tell her then talk about the issue I think you get a good answer
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